Clearly he was speaking from the experience of women he had met, and there's a fair chance that they were in his orbit because of attraction to wealth and power. He also has superb personal confidence and maybe some close-up charisma. Yes, they are strengths/gifts that should not be abused. Lead us not into temptation!
I would hope my wife/daughter/sister were self-aware enough to avoid fascination with wealth and power, and to control the messages they put out in response to it, just as I would hope my sons and brothers could avoid yielding to strong signals from women they didn't know, or didn't want to respond to. But none of us has perfect self-control, and those who approach it may well be sociopaths.
I don't seek to whitewash Trump, but to understand.
The whole of Chesterton's collection The Secret of Father Brown is bracketed by a framing story, which can be summed up in a small part.
There are two ways of renouncing the devil ((he said)) and the difference is perhaps the deepest chasm in modern religion. One is to have a horror of him because he is so far off; and the other is to have it because he is so near. And no virtue and vice are so much divided as those two virtues.
It's one thing to condemn what you would never do, and another to condemn what you know you could do, given the circumstances and capacities. It's one thing to condemn when you can't imagine the temptation, and another to condemn when you do understand it.
But this misses a point that may be more important. Patton got into trouble for slapping a traumatized soldier. I suspect Montgomery would never have done such a thing. But who would you rather have in charge of your armies? Hint: Patton was the one Allied commander the German General Staff feared.