I'm curious to know if anyone had a childhood dream that didn't come true until much later in life.  I'd like to hear about yours.

I will start it off by telling my story.

When I was seven or eight, I was 'horse crazy.'  (Still am!)  I came from a poor farm family, but more than anything else I wanted a black Shetland pony with a long and shaggy black mane and tail.  I remember telling Santa what I wanted that year, my first time ever sitting on his lap, but I was desperate.

I was the youngest of five children and the only girl.  My father was a sharecropper and we lived in a converted chicken coop with one bedroom, a kitchen, and a living room.  We had an outhouse for a toilet.  My father farmed the land, and we raised cows and chickens for milk, eggs, and meat.  No way 'Santa' would ever consent to us owning an animal we couldn't eat, especially one that required hay and grain, not to mention we had no money to buy a pony.  Needless to say, Santa brought me a stocking filled with apples, oranges, and peppermint sticks, but no pony that year.

The years went by and we moved from the converted chicken coop into a house with three bedrooms and an indoor toilet, our first ever.  We had five acres of land my dad farmed and we again had farm animals, but no black pony.

More years went by.  I finished school and college, married, and had a child of my own.  My husband and I had no room for a pony, but I never stopped thinking about that black one.

Twenty-one years ago we bought a thirty-acre farm.  Did I get that black pony?  No.  We were both too busy with life.  Yes, we had the land and I still dreamed about that pony I so desperately wanted, but it just didn't happen.

I've always been an animal rights activist, so in 2005 I decided to take in an abused horse that someone had almost starved to death.  I nursed him back to health and watched him flourish.  One equine led to another, to another.  Still no black pony, but a stable full of horses that were in need of a safe harbor to call their own.  We decided to open our farm and become a certified Animal Sanctuary.

Then it happened.  Since we are registered in the state of Georgia as an animal rescue, I got a call in 2015 from the Dept. of Agriculture asking if I could take in an abused pony.  Without even asking the color, I said yes.  Lo and behold, as soon as the trailer door opened, out stepped the most gorgeous black Shetland pony I'd ever seen, long flowing mane and tale.  Neglected and in need of tender loving care, I nursed that sweet girl back to health, and there she was.  My dream came true.  It took over fifty years for it to happen, but it did. 

She's everything I dreamed of and more.  Her name is Fancy, fitting for such a prim and proper little lady.  Trust me, she was worth the wait!

Has anyone else here sent anything to this publisher?  How did it go?

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London Fog

Well, my goodness, Bill.  Did they tell you why?  Something like, "Somebody licked the red off my candy and I don't want to read submissions tonight."  Or "I can only do two things today, and you're not one of them."  Surely such a quick rejection requires at least a 'how come?"  You spent a lot of time jumping through their hoops to submit it according to their requirements.  I would think they would let you down easy. 

MJ

Bill, the way I do it is click on Home, then click on In-Line Reviews, then In-Line Reviews Given.  There it shows me the drafts I have started.  Click on the name of the chapter, and it SHOULD pull your draft up.  At least that's how it all works for me.  Good luck!

MJ

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Welcome, David!  You will learn a lot here.  Be prepared for both praise and constructive criticism.  You will learn from both!  Glad to have you onboard.

Happy tales to you,
MJ

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darn rabbit

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Chai-na

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"Very, very, very biggly good."

Great news, Randall!  So proud to know you!  I know those 5-star reviews are well deserved!

MJ

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And all this time I just thought I was an ass.  (LOL)

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Amen.  (Tweedle-dee-dee, tweedle-dee-dumb)

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I hope so.

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Hi, Karen,
Welcome.  You will learn a lot here and receive many thoughts, opinions, and suggestions.  This site helped me more than any other.  Lots of good advice to be had here.  The one thing I would suggest is when you post your first chapter or story or poem, make sure to post it in a group that pays points to the reviewer, like the Premium group.  If you're not a member of it yet, may I suggest you join that one before you post.  You will get more reviewers if they get points for their review, which they will use to post their next piece. 

Other than that, enjoy yourself, remember the suggestions you receive are just that--suggestions.  Feel free to use them or toss them. 

Looking forward to reading some of your work!

Peace to you,
MJ

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Funny you should ask because I was just thinking about this today.  For me, I write in my head all day long.  Most of my "head" writing doesn't ever make it to paper, but I play out different scenes in my brain as I go about my daily activities.

For me to actually sit and type, I need to be alone with no one talking to me.  I can have something playing in the background...TV usually, but not something I have to be following.  The actual typing part is always done inside.  My ideal situation for writing is inside, HGTV droning in the background, starting around 11PM, and writing for three or four hours, cat sleeping on top of my desk.

As strange as it sounds, I cannot write a story until I have a title.  When I first started my western novel called Two Roads to Sunday, I built the story around the title.  Sunday is the name of a fictitious 1870s town in New Mexico.  Same thing with Patty Jean.  There were simply thousands of titles for that particular one, but until I firmly decided on the simplicity of 'Patty Jean,' I couldn't write the first word.  Most people write their story and then come up with the title.  I'm just weird like that.  LOL!

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playing in the sprinkler

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Hi, Louis, and welcome to the site!  I read your story and made comments, but you will get more reviewers if you can post this in a group that pays points, like the Premium group.  Most folks on here review for points so they can, in turn, post their own things.

Just a thought.

Happy trails to you,
MJ

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Yes, Dave, you have to push on.  Not everyone is gonna like everything you write.  I've been on this site for 9 years, and I have received reviews where the reviewer tried to change my entire work to how they would have written it if they'd come up with my idea, but I've had more accolades from reviewers than I deserved also.  Sorry that one review affected your confidence in your writing abilities.  When I do reviews, I try to remember this is not my work, and it's not my ideas, so I work with what the author has written, knowing he/she has a particular goal in mind that I will find out about in an upcoming chapter.  I try to offer grammatical corrections, or thoughts on how your writing could flow better, but I will never tell you you're 100% wrong or that you need to go back to school to learn to write (as someone told me once). 

I was off the site for while tending to a sick husband, and I came back in January of this year.  My first week back I posted something I was working on, something I had spent months honing.  The very first review came from someone who tore my words and my concept apart with no idea what I had planned for the next chapter.  His parting words were hurtful and hateful, way beyond the call of duty.  I took the chapter down because he made me doubt my writing abilities and made me say, "I don't need this shit."  I did get over it and didn't let it cripple me, but it floored me that someone could be so rude.  While I am always open to suggestions and ideas, I don't tolerate rudeness.  There's a right way and a wrong way to critique someone's hard work.  So I feel your pain, and it has nothing to do with how long you've been on the site and everything to do with being kind.  If I don't like what you've written, I obviously don't have to read any more of it, but I believe in being kind in expressing my opinions and ideas because they are, after all, my opinions.   

I'm happy to hear you've decided to incorporate writing into your daily schedule.  You're definitely taking a leap of faith, and I admire the fact you didn't give up.  I agree with your advice to the newbies about hanging in there.

Good luck to you in your endeavors!

MJ

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jack the knife wrote:

In another Forum thread, there's a discussion about ways writers could earn more reviewing points. The zero points your posting rewards a reviewer would tend to turn away potential readers of your story, M.J''s and M.D.'s  kind words notwithstanding. You're obviously serious about the craft, and this site can help you hone it - if there's an inducement (points) that makes the valuable time spent by a reviewer worthwhile. Since you are a member of Premium, where most of the good reviewers reside, perhaps it's your settings that should be checked. Make sure that you allow anyone who is a member of ANY of your groups to review and receive points for doing so.

You're right, Jack.  I sent Justin a message and explained to him how to relist it in the Premium group so it pays points.  Hopefully he will do that because this story is really good and would be read by more if points are awarded.

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If you haven't read this short story by our new author, Justin Robben, you have missed a treat.  As I read it trying to determine if I wanted to do an in-line review or a regular one, I found myself so mesmerized by the content that all of my nits, suggestions, and opinions went out the window.  It is an excellent story about a man on Mars trying to communicate with the love of his life on Earth.  I recommend it. 

Happy trails to you,
MJ

P.S.  Even if you don't like or don't read Sci-Fi, this one is extremely light. I personally don't normally read that genre, but this one captured my imagination at the beginning and I couldn't put it down.

As a sidenote, Justin has been able to post this story so that it now pays points!

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still tickin'

I tend to agree with Vern.  I, too, have more points than I will ever use, but each one of those points represents a friendship, a comment, a helpful hint, or a suggestion.  I joined this site in 2008, coming in thinking I knew everything!  What a joke!  I knew nothing compared to some of the more seasoned writers on here.  Those writers guided me, taught me, put up with me, and helped me along the way.  In return, I read their posts, how they worded things, how they plotted their stories.  Well, you get what I mean.

There are so many good stories on here from writers who are currently not posting anything.  They've left their stories for us to learn from.  I personally think giving away points takes away from the learning process.  That's my opinion, for what it's worth.

Have a peaceful day, everybody!
MJ