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Memphis Trace wrote:
njc wrote:

Crime in DC went down sharply after the Heller decision; crime in Chicago went down sharply after the McDonald decision.

Can you link me up with studies that show this?

Memphis Trace

I can't offhand, although i keep a bibliography on gun control which I would gladly share, but it's a holiday weekend and I'm lazy. But go to John Lott's website, or for that matter, the CDC's, although the latter bury it in an avalanche of citations.  (They are prohibited from doing research leading to gun control, but Obama decided that they weren't prohibited from doing research into gun violence, so did an end-run around the prohibition.  Turned out he was right to make the distinction--the study actually is now used by the NRA; the only way, it didn't go the RNA's way had to do with suicides.  You are more likely to commit suicide if you're a gun owner.)

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Sigh.  Another refuge from the outside world sullied.  OK, here's my contribution.  First, the debate is at the inevitable level.  We have a mass shooting.  Tragic.  Avoidable.  But it makes us all aware of the evil in people.  So, there are cries to control people.  Yes, they use the term, 'gun control,' but it is people that they really want to restrict.  Otherwise, there would be a push for laws that restrict criminals, and not law-abiding citizens. It is also a cry of those who want public policy decided by emotion, not reason.  The demand always starts with the cry, "don't just stand there, do something!"  Vague demands are then replaced by demanding laws that are already on the books.  It's not recognized that they are on the books, as they failed.  But maybe, this time, they will succeed.  (Now, what did Einstein say that insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results?)  Witness, Biden's demand that 'armor piercing' bullets be banned, although they already had been--twice.  Inevitably, also, there is a slide--although it is "assault rifles" used, the push becomes for greater control over handguns. 

The ruling, Heller v DC, did indeed say that weapons in common usage among the people ("the militia) are protected, and that meant those commonly used in sports, hunting, and self-defense.  Scalia said that Miller v US allowed the prohibiting of "exotic weapons," including machine guns and assault weapons.  (It actually said that there has to be a rational relationship between the training of the militia and the weapon.  This would allow for assault weapons.)  Now, the thing about banning assault weapons is that they are identical in function, but not in appearance, to ordinary semi-automatics (which incidentally are not easily converted to automatic weapons.  You have to have expertise, gunsmithing knowledge, and the right equipment,)  The weapons in question (using Diane Feinstein's list) are used in about 2% of the crimes.  Yes, mass murderers use them, but they are often used to stop mass murderers as well (the Texas Church shooting, where a good guy with an AR-15 stopped a bad guy with an AR-15).

Nine out of ten mass killings occur in "gun-free zones."  They would be more accurately descirbed as "victime disarmament zones," and that is what we are talking about, victim disarmament.  I know, vern would say, we are talking about "automatic weapons," (he used the slide from SA to automatic that is so often in victim disarmament debates).  But the slide is always to guns used for self-defense, sports, and hunting. Let's also be clear about the meaning of "assault weapon"--it means scary looking one.  Diane Feinstein's white list had identical guns allowed that were banned, but they didn't scare her.  No jumping up on a table top in their presence.  (Ironically, that makes her bill constitutional, as, if the identical weapon is allowed and banned, then, since it is allowed, no harm, no foul).

Gun violence has dropped in inverse relationship to the proliferation of guns, and right to carry laws.  Even some victim disarmament advocates recognize this.  I read an editorial in the New York Times where this statistic was given, and the writer then went on to say, yes, homicide has plummetted in States with right to carry laws, but justified homicides (victims protecting themselves), has skyrocketed.  He referred to victims defending themselves as "aggressors," and those who attacked them as victims.  (Most gun deaths are suicides, btw. 2/3rd, in fact.  As I believe that you have a right to sucide, whether by guns or by physician-assistance, this is ok with me.  Not that I think we shouldn't get people help, and sure, force gun stores to carry suicide-prevention hotline information.)

This isn't to say that somethings can't be done that are both constitutional and consistent with natural rights.  Putting bump stocks on the FFA list doesn't interfere with the training of people (in fact bump stocks counter the training, as they interfere with accuracy and ruin your gun).  Having the military put dishonorable and medical discharges into the national database would help, as would training the FBI in elementary geography, so the person running the check doesn't confuse North and South Carolina.  When police ignore a psychiatrist's information that a man is dangerously psychotic and he should not be ignored, that would be nice (the Holmes case), and the FBI following up on tips about a school shooter too.  And yes perhaps the age for buying scary looking guns should be raised to 21.  After all, if you have to have an adult buy your liquour, why not your gun?

I'll end by asking the question, to vern and anyone else--how does disarming me (or any victim) make you safer?

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And and you're right, 'platonic' as in 'platonic love' isn't capitalized.  As Merriam-Webster said, stuffily, 'it's important to distinguish the two [meaning Platonic, as in pertaining to Plato, and platonic, as in the love].

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Suin, you wrote the diary segments when you were fifteen?  Wow.  I'm impressed, truly.  They do come across as a mature woman's reflections, not your typical teenager.  And I used 'forty,' to mean mature here.  Sorry to have aged you. lol

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Gacela, just wait until you're looking over a cliff at a beach, a man crashes his plane, you save him.  A bunch of German soldiers start attacking; he fights along your side...OK, fine.  I just watched Wonder Woman.  Cut me some slack.

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c.e. jones wrote:

Hello!! So thrilled to be here! And so sorry, Gacela, about your run of bad luck in romance. Patience, right? I was 37 before I found the love of my life, and even then it took me awhile to figure out if I loved or hated him, lol

Welcome to the group, C.E.!  I look forward to your participation and to reading your stuff.

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Mariana Reuter wrote:

I must be through a run of bad luck because, in the past 12 months, I dated two different chaps and in both cases they turned to be not the wrong one, but the very wrong one. Both relationships started too fast--which was partially my fault for allowing it--and ended up badly. I'm no longer a teen so I ought to learn how engage in a positive relationship.

I also need to kill a ghost from the past, and maybe then it'll be easier for me to start something positive. But sometimes we grab these ghosts like Titanic survivors grabbing a lifesaver in the sea. Only we're floating in freezing water and the lifesaver is not a good idea unless we let it go and swim like the devil were after us, until we reach the Carpathia.

There are support groups that help members exorcize these ghosts.  One thing I'd recommend is go into the alpha state of mind, ask your subconscious 'What is attracting me to these men?'  Take notes on the responses.  Another good technique to use, especially before going to pick up places or places where you might meet a guy you are interested in):  You thump your energy spots, and say to yourself (shout, if possible), "Although I totally f*** myself with my relationships with men, I totally accept and appreciate myself."  It works wonders.  Another technique;  make a list of all the negative things about your father and all the positive things.  Then, make a list of all the things that you liked in these bad guys.  Then do a compare and contrast--you will find that *extremely* illuminating and give you a list of what to avoid.

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Hi, Gacela:  Glad you are back.  You being gone was causing CJ fits (J/K, CJ).  The best way to attract a high-quality man is to love yourself and hold yourself in high esteem.  Not going to bed with him on date 2 is a really good way to show this.  Nice guys are out there, and they are not all gay, married, or are monks.

And yes, sisters are all too aware of the faults of little brothers, CJ.

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I look forward to the new member.  Thanks, Suin.  And we know, CJ, this is a temporary arrangement, not a coup.  I will check her out.

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CJ:  I think it's a great idea.  And not your place?  This isn't 18th century England, girl. How it's done?  You ask Sol.  He'll either say yea or nay.  Just tell him that we are, atm, leaderless and don't want our once flourishing group to languish.  An alternative would be to form another group and invite us all to come to thatl

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I think you get Gacela to let him or her in, and that's it.  The main difficulty is finding Gacela. lol

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Yes, what is with the kids these days?

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She led a rich and full life. She will be remembered long after, well, almost any other SF writer.  Up there with Verne, Welles, E.E. Smith, Heinlein, Asimov, and (dare I say) Gene Roddenberry (not really a writer but still historic), and, of course, the most unforgettable one of us-um, now, what was his name?

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Don60 wrote:

Just posted one chapter of a book I'm working on called Non-Compliant.  Give it a read and I welcome any and all feedback.

Welcome, Don.  I look forward to reading your work.

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Yug wrote:

Hello everyone. I am new here. I would love if you read my work and review it. I promise to do the same smile

Welcome, Yug.  This is the best website for reviews and support.  I think you will like it here.

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njc wrote:

Please tell me you don't want it in pink!

Seriously, there is a market in pink firearms and accessories.  I'm guessing the only reason there's no market for lace is that it would get caught when the weapon is drawn.  cool

Stainless steel, and a black grip.  I'll tell you the name of my dealer when you're ready.  lol

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You can be brutally honest, yet nice about it.  I sometimes use a joke when I think the writer's punctuation needs work, or has a misplaced modifier, or some similar flaw.  We don't have to be a Doc Martin about our editing.  ("You have a choice.  You can condemn your writing to an eternal slush pile or  learn the elements of English grammar!")  But I applaud the shred group but have yet to receive a really brutal review.  Nor I hope, ever given one.  We are all friends here right, even if none of you sent me a Christmas card, nor helped Santa Clause give me what I really wanted for Christmas (A Ruger Redhawk .44 Magnum  Come on, guys, it's only 875 dollars.  Split between the lot of you, that's what?  A dollar per person.  But you don't see me whining about it. Do you?  lol)

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Well, now that we're all swallowing, gasping for air, with our hands on our bosoms, why not have a contest with the theme, "A Slow Death?"

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Volume III is currently on Inkitt, where you can write a review.  Any edits you may have to email me about.  nOt sure.  Thanks for the url on Lynda.com

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Tirz, congrats on finishing Plum.  Glad you've returned to writing.

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My objectives are:  To publish Vol. III, Exile's End, currently posted on Inkitt.  Finish the first draft of "Love in Exile," ("The Loves of Rhiannon"), and to start posting the fourth in the tetralogy, which has no title as of yet.  Oh, and continue to nag all my friends to read Vol. II, the flagship volume, "Out of Exile."  It's on Kindle, you know.  Hint. Hint.

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What's the url for AlphaOmega; I did a search and got a Christian Australasian Writers' group.

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I kind of figured that's been a general feeling, CJ.  I published one volume, the other is at Inkitt, waiting for enough readers to motivate their decision to publish.  I need to do a lot of reviews to publish anything new here but am re-writing The Loves of Rhiannon, putting in details.  I've learned that one of my strong points is to put in "amazing" details in a fantasy setting.  That talent was a long time coming, and some of the chapters show my earlier style.  Holidays are tough on those of us who are caregivers and sharers.  The Santa Claus's of the world.  You take care of yourself and remember, you are missed.

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Keep us posted.  As skeptical as I am about agents, I do like to hear success stories.

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Suin:  I've had that feeling too; like you and I are the only survivors of a zombie apocalypse, or something.