corra wrote:Temple Wang wrote:... I nominate "whinge" as the first Word of the Day
whinge
v.
"to complain peevishly," British, informal or dialectal, ultimately from the northern form of Old English hwinsian, from Proto-Germanic *khwinisojan (cf. Old High German winison, German winseln), from root of Old English hwinan "to whine" (see whine (v.)). Related: Whinged ; whinging.
*curtseys* and *goes back to critiquing, because she finds the site quite good and is impressed with Sol's efforts to accommodate, especially in light of so much tempest in his TNBW teacup*
A year or so ago, Sol asked existing members for feedback about what worked/didn't work (in our view) as the new site was cooking. He asked again as the new site was headed to launch, and has repeatedly said that he appreciates candor as it helps him make improvements. He doesn't agree with it all, but the feedback helps him make decisions. Linda is continuing that discussion now that she's tried out the new site long enough to perceive a few of the rough patches on her end. What you perceive as "whinging" is a conversation in which you have stumbled unawares.
Linda has the rare talent of being direct without ever slipping into spite. You might benefit from the example.
Corra, don't bother. This is life according to Temple: If your name is not Temple, you are whinging and bitching, Linda's first post being the exception by some kind of shoe-fitting fairy-tale miracle i.e. because Temple said so or concurred. If your name is Temple or Temple agrees with you, only then is it a legitimate request or reply or post or opinion. (No need to thank me or reply Temple, consider clarifying this as my good deed for today).
ps - Temple will of course reply, because she's very independent and do as she wishes. I admire that greatly.
We are of course ignoring this reply from Linda in response to Temple agreeing with someone about this being a bitching list for the moment by being very selective and because you have agreed with Linda once (way back then):
Linda Lee wrote:Rosie, Temple et al, many of us commenting on this thread have been members of The Next Big Writer for many years (9 years for me) and have migrated to this site from a far simpler community oriented workshop site. As you may imagine, when you have something that worked well for so long, adapting to HUGE SWEEPING CHANGE can be more than a little unnerving. But you should know that the opinions given in this thread were solicited by Sol. He's always been dedicated to improving workflow when it comes to what's most important to newbies and oldies alike; i.e. giving and getting writing feedback.
I have to admit, I admire Temple's ability to turn most reasonable on-topic replies directed to her into something personal and completely irrelevant to the intent behind the post. I also admire her ability to twist words deliberately around to suit her agenda while she somehow still connect it to the topic, no matter how far fetched it may be.
I'm okay with this, because Sol is okay with it, and because I fully support everyone's right to freedom of speech and to have their opinion heard, even when they contradict themselves without fail.
I would have agreed with your reply and Linda's, but then we will be instructed to a get a room. A classic/very original reply when you dare to agree with someone not named Temple and when Temple is not in agreement too. I would admire this, if it wasn't for the predictability. In other words, I agree with you and Linda, by not exactly saying I agree with you and Linda 
My next item for the wish-list is: to return to submitting ideas and suggestions, all and sundry, for Sol's consideration and to make this site the best it can be. And if someone should feel a suggestion or idea is not up to whatever the standard it is they hold, that they will give it a cursory glance and no more.
*hobbles away with a melting wax shoe on one foot*