I'm Doing A Bad Thing, replying to an author instead of to the comment--because I'm replying to two successive comments.
corra wrote:njc wrote:Try this: women have a far greater need than men to control AND adjust AND manage their boundaries than men have.
I have to agree with this. History is filled with gentlemen shaking hands over border disputes and tipping their top hats.
My posting was a serious and polemic comment, cutting (I think) to a deep masculine/feminine divide. Your response dismisses it with mild humor. The humor isn't the big point: the dismissal is.
I have no problem with that. If you don't think the point is worth discussion, I'm fine with that.
corra wrote:Mariana Reuter wrote:"He" been used as the generic pronoun for ages. It's a kinda common place.
SO IS THE COMMON COLD?
This response takes another author's evaluation, and masks a polemic response under what might be mild humor or might be sarcasm.
So now, with the discussion framed in your terms, it's as serious as an illness?
A refusal to meet and discuss at a common point is one of the essences of polarization.
I'm reminded of a Chesterton story--I think The Man with Two Beards--in which a character is convinced she can see spirit manifestations. Her family dismisses her beliefs, but she is drawn to Father Brown, who also disagrees with her, but (paraphrasing) disagrees as though her ideas do matter, instead of disagreeing as though they don't matter.
I hope that this has been polite. If you feel it is bitter, perhaps it is. I think it is a matter that will sooner or later elicit bitterness, and I prefer it to be sooner, and more respectful.
I close with a quote from Trudeau's Zonker Harris, at the opening of one of his Tanning Competitions: We who are about to fry salute you!