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I was composing an email to someone yesterday… you’ll know who you are… when I wrote “… I’ve been wracking my brain for days…” when I screeched to a halt. That simply does not look right! So, I replaced “wracking” with “racking”. It still didn’t look right. OK. So… which is it???

                                                          Is It “Racking Your Brain” Or “Wracking Your Brain”?

There are some language guides, generally the ones that pay a lot of attention to the etymology of “rack” and “wrack”, that will still say it is “racking your brain” not “wracking your brain”, but these are becoming few and far between.  In fact, people have been confusing “rack” and “wrack” almost as long as the two words have existed. For instance, some of the earliest known uses of the expression “wrack and ruin” (circa 15th-16th century) were using the technically incorrect “rack and ruin”.  The first known instance of this was from Thomas Fowler’s History of Corpus Christi College (1599).

In order to see why it technically should be “rack your brain”, we have to look back at where these two words come from.  The word “rack” probably comes from the Middle Dutch “rec”, meaning “framework”, and is a cognate of  the Old English “recken”, meaning “to stretch out”.  This lent itself to the Middle English word for a frame that you put things on to dry or to stretch something out on (as with leather working).  Shortly thereafter, the word also came to mean a frame for putting people on to torture them.  This in turn gave rise to the even more expanded meaning of causing mental or physical harm or suffering.  Over this same span, several other distinct definitions of “rack” sprung up, including the most pertinent one for this discussion, “to stretch or strain”.

“Wrack” probably came from the Middle Dutch “wrak”, meaning “wreck”, which eventually gave rise to “wrack” as in “shipwreck” and “wrack” as in “damage, destroy”.  This soon extended to meaning any flotsam, jetsam, seaweed, etc. washed up on the beach, which in turn gave rise to the definition “state of disrepair or decay”, hence the expression “wrack and ruin”.  As with “rack”, several other definitions have popped up, often synonymous with “rack”.

You can see from this why linguists who put a lot of stock into the etymology of a word over current accepted definitions would say that “wrack your brain” would be incorrect as you aren’t meaning “to bring your brain into a state of decay or disrepair” or to “wreck your brain”.  You’re meaning to strain yourself mentally in order to remember something.  You can also see from these two etymologies why the first known instance of racking brains uses “rack” instead of “wrack”:

They rack their brains… they hazard their lives for it. ---William Beveridge’s Sermons (1680)

However, given that people have been writing this expression (and many others that use “wrack” and “rack”) both ways nearly as long as the expression has commonly existed, the bottom line is that you aren’t going to go afoul of many English language guides if you write “wracking your brain” instead of “racking your brain”. But if you really want to make sure you’re toeing the line (and avoid the wrath of internet Grammar Nazis), use “rack your brain” not “wrack your brain”, particularly if you are writing for British English readers.

On that note, as a general rule, quite often when you aren’t sure whether you should put “wrack” or “rack”, “rack” probably includes a definition for what you mean, while “wrack” doesn’t necessarily do so.  Thus, as the New York Times Manual of Style recommends, consider eliminating “wrack” from your writing vocabulary and just always use “rack” unless you’re using “wrack” to mean “wreck” or “to inflict damage”. In the former case, just use “wreck”.  In the latter case, use “wreak”.

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I was composing an email to someone yesterday… you’ll know who you are… when I wrote “… I’ve been wracking my brain for days…” when I screeched to a halt. That simply does not look right! So, I replaced “wracking” with “racking”. It still didn’t look right. OK. So… which is it???

                                                          Is It “Racking Your Brain” Or “Wracking Your Brain”?

There are some language guides, generally the ones that pay a lot of attention to the etymology of “rack” and “wrack”, that will still say it is “racking your brain” not “wracking your brain”, but these are becoming few and far between.  In fact, people have been confusing “rack” and “wrack” almost as long as the two words have existed. For instance, some of the earliest known uses of the expression “wrack and ruin” (circa 15th-16th century) were using the technically incorrect “rack and ruin”.  The first known instance of this was from Thomas Fowler’s History of Corpus Christi College (1599).

In order to see why it technically should be “rack your brain”, we have to look back at where these two words come from.  The word “rack” probably comes from the Middle Dutch “rec”, meaning “framework”, and is a cognate of  the Old English “recken”, meaning “to stretch out”.  This lent itself to the Middle English word for a frame that you put things on to dry or to stretch something out on (as with leather working).  Shortly thereafter, the word also came to mean a frame for putting people on to torture them.  This in turn gave rise to the even more expanded meaning of causing mental or physical harm or suffering.  Over this same span, several other distinct definitions of “rack” sprung up, including the most pertinent one for this discussion, “to stretch or strain”.

“Wrack” probably came from the Middle Dutch “wrak”, meaning “wreck”, which eventually gave rise to “wrack” as in “shipwreck” and “wrack” as in “damage, destroy”.  This soon extended to meaning any flotsam, jetsam, seaweed, etc. washed up on the beach, which in turn gave rise to the definition “state of disrepair or decay”, hence the expression “wrack and ruin”.  As with “rack”, several other definitions have popped up, often synonymous with “rack”.

You can see from this why linguists who put a lot of stock into the etymology of a word over current accepted definitions would say that “wrack your brain” would be incorrect as you aren’t meaning “to bring your brain into a state of decay or disrepair” or to “wreck your brain”.  You’re meaning to strain yourself mentally in order to remember something.  You can also see from these two etymologies why the first known instance of racking brains uses “rack” instead of “wrack”:

They rack their brains… they hazard their lives for it. ---William Beveridge’s Sermons (1680)

However, given that people have been writing this expression (and many others that use “wrack” and “rack”) both ways nearly as long as the expression has commonly existed, the bottom line is that you aren’t going to go afoul of many English language guides if you write “wracking your brain” instead of “racking your brain”. But if you really want to make sure you’re toeing the line (and avoid the wrath of internet Grammar Nazis), use “rack your brain” not “wrack your brain”, particularly if you are writing for British English readers.

On that note, as a general rule, quite often when you aren’t sure whether you should put “wrack” or “rack”, “rack” probably includes a definition for what you mean, while “wrack” doesn’t necessarily do so.  Thus, as the New York Times Manual of Style recommends, consider eliminating “wrack” from your writing vocabulary and just always use “rack” unless you’re using “wrack” to mean “wreck” or “to inflict damage”. In the former case, just use “wreck”.  In the latter case, use “wreak”.

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Her sister is making breakfast!

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Oh! I forgot to mention that the rehearsal is a 9 a.m. the day of the wedding. If we leave the venue, we need to be back by 2:30 for pictures.

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Actually, Chapter 1 doesn't show up either. I posted it yesterday. It's been reviewed. All show as "active" on my portfolio page.

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I posted 2 chapters of Pruned Violets today, but only chapter 3 shows up on the new posting list. Not chapter 2. Anybody know why?

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I need input from romantics. Am I just out of the loop?

I got married in 1982 (Divorced in 2003, but that's a story for another day.). I had two wedding (bridal) showers, one given by the ladies in my church and one given by a friend, and one lingerie shower. I registered my fine china, my silverware, my crystal, and my everyday dishes. Toaster and the like were just expected.

So, can y'all tell me what the hell a couple's shower is all about and when did a bridal shower only apply to the bride's side? And a couple's shower is for the groom's side? Not to mention they have registered every damned item you can think of, maybe even down to toothpicks.  Seriously, something like 600 items.

Am I totally nuts or are my future daughter-in-law and her mother the kooks?

Wedding colors turquoise and pink with green piping. I found a lovely green (same shade as the piping) satin dress only to be told that HER mother had decided that the mothers (my son's stepmom included) would be wearing neutral colors, you know like "burlap." I swear to God, I almost got some burlap to make a frigging dress. But no. I went and found a very nice tan dress accessorized with turquoise shoes and brown and turquoise jewelry. just to discover the bride's mother has now purchased a light blue dress.

I am so damned ready for this farce to be over. May 14!!!! Outdoor wedding at 5:30 p.m.

The bride will have 8 attendants, and those bridesmaids' dresses are hideous--very unflattering. The top is beige crocheted looking stuff with just gathered from there down in a variegated aqua/turquoise--and the girls are wearing what looks like crochet flip-flops. I haven't even seen the bride's frock.
The groomsmen are to wear dress pants and white shirts with suspenders and black Converses.

Oh, and honeymoon at Disney World.

AND NOW! Another son is officially engaged. Sept. 30., outdoor wedding, 6 p.m. Okay. I don't think this girl is quite as spoiled as the first fiancee. I've already been dress shopping with her, her mother, and her matron of honor (Her older sister). She found a lovely strapless long white dress with little embroidered silver flowers sprinkled throughout the skirt. Her color scheme is coral and mint green. I already found my outfit of a heavy pleated silk pants set in peach to accessorize with the darker coral shoes and jewelry. She thinks it's perfect.

They are thinking honeymoon in Jamaica.

Well, at least I'll have two RN's in the family.

Notice, that I'm ranting here and not on Facebook b/c I just need input and I don't want to piss off the brides.

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http://gcwriters.org/taylor_perry.html

http://gcwriters.org/taylor_perry.html

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I've missed you. Don't overdo.

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When To Use “That” and When To Use “Which”

Here are two examples of the same sentence, one using “that” and the other using “which.”

·       “To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system which currently sustains life, although several other bodies are under investigation.”
·       “To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system that currently sustains life, although several other bodies are under investigation.”

Which is the correct sentence, and what is the general rule of thumb?

Before I give you the “that”/”which” rule, just a reminder that “who” should always be used when referring to people.
The boy who threw the ball.
This is the woman who always wears a black shawl.

When referring to objects, though, the rule for using “that” and “which” correctly is simple:
THAT should be used to introduce a restrictive clause.
WHICH should be used to introduce a non-restrictive or parenthetical clause.
If that leaves you more confused than when you began this article, read on…

A restrictive clause is one which is essential to the meaning of a sentence – if it’s removed, the meaning of the sentence will change. For example:
Chairs that don’t have cushions are uncomfortable to sit on.
Card games that involve betting money should not be played in school.
To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system that currently sustains life…

A non-restrictive clause can be left out without changing the meaning of a sentence. Non-restrictive clauses are either in brackets or have a comma before and after them (or only before them if they come at the end of a sentence):

Chairs, which are found in many places of work, are often uncomfortable to sit on.
I sat on an uncomfortable chair, which was in my office.

Why You Need to Use “That” or “Which” Correctly

Changing that to which or vice versa can completely change the meaning of a sentence. Consider the following examples:
My car that is blue goes very fast.
My car, which is blue, goes very fast.
The first sentence uses that – suggesting I own more than one car (and even implying my other cars might not be so fast). This is what happens if we leave out the clause and write:
My car that is blue goes very fast.
My car goes very fast.
The sentence’s meaning has changed: the reader does not know which one of my cars goes very fast.

However, the sentence using which simple informs the reader that my car is blue. We can take the clause out without losing any essential information:
My car, which is blue, goes very fast.
My car goes very fast.

“That” and “Which” in Common Usage

It is common today for which to be used with both non-restrictive and restrictive clauses, especially in informal contexts:
Who ate the cake that I bought this morning?
Who ate the cake which I bought this morning?
The clause “that I bought this morning” is essential to the meaning – I’m not asking about a cake which I bought yesterday, or this afternoon. Therefore, the first example using “that” is the correct one, but many people would not consider the second ungrammatical.

It is, however, incorrect even in informal contexts to use that for a non-restrictive or parenthical clause. For example, these sentences would be considered incorrect:
This computer, that I have never liked, is very slow.
The blue desk, that my father gave me.
An easy way to watch out for these is to look for instances where you have a comma followed by the word that. If I’d known this years ago, it would have saved me a lot of frustration with Microsoft Word!

Even though the usage of which has been relaxed to some extent, it is still better to keep your writing as clear as possible by using which for only non-restrictive clauses, and that for restrictive ones.

So, to return to the original example:
“To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system which currently sustains life, although several other bodies are under investigation.”
“To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system that currently sustains life, although several other bodies are under investigation.”
The second sentence, using that is correct, but many people would consider the first sentence permissible too. In a formal context such as a scientific paper, it is better to use that for total clarity.

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When To Use “That” and When To Use “Which”

Here are two examples of the same sentence, one using “that” and the other using “which.”

·       “To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system which currently sustains life, although several other bodies are under investigation.”
·       “To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system that currently sustains life, although several other bodies are under investigation.”

Which is the correct sentence, and what is the general rule of thumb?

Before I give you the “that”/”which” rule, just a reminder that “who” should always be used when referring to people.
The boy who threw the ball.
This is the woman who always wears a black shawl.

When referring to objects, though, the rule for using “that” and “which” correctly is simple:
THAT should be used to introduce a restrictive clause.
WHICH should be used to introduce a non-restrictive or parenthetical clause.
If that leaves you more confused than when you began this article, read on…

A restrictive clause is one which is essential to the meaning of a sentence – if it’s removed, the meaning of the sentence will change. For example:
Chairs that don’t have cushions are uncomfortable to sit on.
Card games that involve betting money should not be played in school.
To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system that currently sustains life…

A non-restrictive clause can be left out without changing the meaning of a sentence. Non-restrictive clauses are either in brackets or have a comma before and after them (or only before them if they come at the end of a sentence):

Chairs, which are found in many places of work, are often uncomfortable to sit on.
I sat on an uncomfortable chair, which was in my office.

Why You Need to Use “That” or “Which” Correctly

Changing that to which or vice versa can completely change the meaning of a sentence. Consider the following examples:
My car that is blue goes very fast.
My car, which is blue, goes very fast.
The first sentence uses that – suggesting I own more than one car (and even implying my other cars might not be so fast). This is what happens if we leave out the clause and write:
My car that is blue goes very fast.
My car goes very fast.
The sentence’s meaning has changed: the reader does not know which one of my cars goes very fast.

However, the sentence using which simple informs the reader that my car is blue. We can take the clause out without losing any essential information:
My car, which is blue, goes very fast.
My car goes very fast.

“That” and “Which” in Common Usage

It is common today for which to be used with both non-restrictive and restrictive clauses, especially in informal contexts:
Who ate the cake that I bought this morning?
Who ate the cake which I bought this morning?
The clause “that I bought this morning” is essential to the meaning – I’m not asking about a cake which I bought yesterday, or this afternoon. Therefore, the first example using “that” is the correct one, but many people would not consider the second ungrammatical.

It is, however, incorrect even in informal contexts to use that for a non-restrictive or parenthical clause. For example, these sentences would be considered incorrect:
This computer, that I have never liked, is very slow.
The blue desk, that my father gave me.
An easy way to watch out for these is to look for instances where you have a comma followed by the word that. If I’d known this years ago, it would have saved me a lot of frustration with Microsoft Word!

Even though the usage of which has been relaxed to some extent, it is still better to keep your writing as clear as possible by using which for only non-restrictive clauses, and that for restrictive ones.

So, to return to the original example:
“To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system which currently sustains life, although several other bodies are under investigation.”
“To our knowledge, it is the only body in the solar system that currently sustains life, although several other bodies are under investigation.”
The second sentence, using that is correct, but many people would consider the first sentence permissible too. In a formal context such as a scientific paper, it is better to use that for total clarity.

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Dirk, suck it up. Get a new laptop with Windows 10 and Word 2016.

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Wilma,
Go to the drop down box by your name and click on reviews. Go to inline given (Or posted or something like that.) You should see the draft review there and can click on it and pick up where you left off.

I never have. I sure would like to.

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Shrieking works too.

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Scream, screech, yowl, and show the the jerk swinging the bag so I can kill him/her.

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Thanks, all! My friend, Vivian, also had sweet story.

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Congrats and thanks for the shout out! I loved the story. Need a blurb???

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Happy birthday, today, Charles_F_Bell.

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S Lee wrote:

Thank you both for coming back to me. I will follow your suggestions and see what happens (gulp!). I think I need to read around and see what others are doing too but so far this looks like a really vibrant community. I recently joined one where the sound of crickets was drowned out by the howling wind of loneliness.

I am looking forward to getting involved!

Great imagery there!

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S Lee wrote:

Hi, I'm new to the group. I am currently writing a series of romance novellas that I intend self-publishing. Can anyone tell me how to make the most of being in this group. Writing is a long lonely journey and sharing that journey with like minded writers would be fantastic.

Post your chapters to Premium. Yes, it takes points, but you'll get more feedback. Be sure to reciprocate reviews. Read others, and not just in your genre. Do join the Romance, Inc. group too. (I think that's it.) Participate in discussions. Ask for feedback if your aren't getting anything, but the best way to get reviews is to review. People are good about reciprocating. Suggested folks to read (Well me of course. smile), Janet Reid, Rebecca Vaughn, and any romance person you choose. Be prepared to get constructive criticism. If someone hurts your feelings, don't get upset. I was told no one would read my stuff with my current writing style. The same story that was said about was a semifinalist at the Faulkner Competition and is now in print and receiving 4 & 5 star reviews. Stay true to yourself, but if you get half a dozen folks telling you something is off, take it seriously. Be willing to bend and make changes. Hope this helps. WELCOME TO A GREAT GROUP & SITE.

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Happy birthday, Kyla! Don't get into too much trouble.

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http://gcwriters.org/mq_winning_entries.htm

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Glad to have you back