Topic: How to Handle Criticism

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From the AutoCrit Blog
https://www.autocrit.com/blog/2018/09/0 … sm-writer/

How to Handle Criticism
There’s an art to dealing with criticism, and it goes beyond smiling gamely and saying, “Thanks for giving it to me straight!” while secretly dying inside. Here are some ways to make the process less painful and more productive.

• Realize that others want to help. Sure, some critics are smug and think they know best, but generally, people who take the time to give you feedback want to help you grow as a writer. Remind yourself that most people have good intentions … even those who are less-than-tactful.

• Separate yourself from your manuscript. You’ve spent hours with your manuscript, alone in your writing cave. It can begin to feel as though you and your draft are one and the same. Feedback on your writing isn’t personal. “I don’t like this paragraph” doesn’t equate to “I don’t like you.”

• Remember to TWYWLTR. It stands for “Take What You Want; Leave The Rest.” Not every bit of criticism offered is going to resonate with you, and that’s okay. Give all of the feedback you receive your consideration, but in the end, keep only what resonates. You can’t please everyone. And sometimes critics are wrong. But …

• Don’t be closed-minded. Before you decide that a critic is wrong, make sure you’ve taken the time to consider whether she might be right. This is especially true when more than one person gives you the same feedback. If three beta readers all say they don’t understand your character’s motives, then you probably have some work to do.

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I would boil it down to, "If you ain't looking for criticism (that means pro and con) then you probably shouldn't be asking for reviews by publishing on a reviewing oriented site. " And if you're overly sensitive, you might want to bathe in salt water for a while to toughen the skin -- and before I get pelted with rotten tomatoes, no, that doesn't give license to rude behavior. Just my take. Take care. Vern

3 (edited by Temple Wang 2018-09-05 23:59:09)

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vern wrote:

I would boil it down to, "If you ain't looking for criticism (that means pro and con) then you probably shouldn't be asking for reviews by publishing on a reviewing oriented site. " And if you're overly sensitive, you might want to bathe in salt water for a while to toughen the skin -- and before I get pelted with rotten tomatoes, no, that doesn't give license to rude behavior. Just my take. Take care. Vern

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Well said.

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Just tried AutoCrit. Interesting application. I couldn't tell if the overall summary number was a percentage or a number that can exceed 100. I got 87. My readability varied from grade 4 to grade 10, depending on which test it ran. Too bad the story requires so much violence. Otherwise, I'd have a YA novel on my hands.

Anyone know if you can sign up for their various writers' posts? I couldn't find a place to enter my email address to get on a mailing list. Seems like it would be a useful way to convince potential buyers to pay up.

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Dirk, you're way ahead of me.  I read your post, signed up for my 'free trial,' and am still waiting for the email to come to allow me my free week.  Maybe they realize my manuscript is perfect (cough).

The trouble with a robot, though, is they don't know what your intent is.  If a character always talks in an ungrammatical way, it would probably make you change his or her dialogue, and hey, presto! all your characters sound alike.  But I'll be interested in hearing more of your reactions to them, and I'll share mine, that is, if they ever send me that email.

7 (edited by Temple Wang 2018-09-06 22:50:52)

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Just a point of clarification on this.  This wasn’t intended to pitch AutoCrit.  I think it’s a waste of money for most people.   I subscribe to their blog because it sometimes has some good articles.  I have tried it and found it too “mechanical” (and kind of silly in many cases).  Great writing (and great grammar/punctuation) is an “art,” not a manufacturing process employing interchangeable widgets.  I don’t use it or advocate it.  I have tested (out of curiosity) all of these kinds of applications—as I do believe, some day, they will evolve to be more useful.  I found them all wanting (so far).

My two cents (or more) in advance of being clobbered (and this is not just in reference AutoCrit, but all applications that purport to assist editing):

(PS and before I begin: yeah, yeah, yeah ... opinions are like a—holes, everybody’s got one. I’m an a—hole, here’s my opinion ...)

1. For the novice, it’s too often used as a crutch to support struggling writers too lazy to learn grammar and punctuation rules.  For people who use it that way, it will probably marginally help some of their writing (until they give up, because they will, inevitably), but without a solid grounding in grammar and punctuation, they won’t be able to effectively use what they get from it.  If you are lazy, then you won’t solve that problem with a crutch.  In fact, for these people, in the main, it does more harm than good, as if you don’t have the will (or gumption, it should be noted) to interpret the info, you end up just being a non-learning robot and repeating bad practices (and not even knowing it), and you never develop the ear for language, which is at the heart of being a skilled writer.  Tragically, it tends to create tedious know-it-alls who ... well, don’t.  Alas: lazy folks end up giving up these kinds of applications in the end, because even a crutch requires too much effort for the truly lazy.

2. For novice writers who use it as an active assist to help them learn punctuation and grammar, and who are disciplined enough to strive to understand the “why” instead of just blindly doing what it recommends, they might get some benefit out of it.  But voraciously reading and actively studying grammar/punctuation would be time better spent—and much more fun and effective.

3.  For experienced, non-lazy writers with a good grasp of punctuation and grammar: taken with a grain of salt (and used intelligently and judiciously), it can be a second set of eyes if you don’t have good beta readers and have money to blow.

4.  Bottom line, if you want a solution to weak grammar and/or punctuation, there is no shortcut or magic wand: 1) there are some great reference books out there to be read and absorbed - read them; absorb them; 2) read (read, read, read) with an aim to understanding why skilled writers make the choices they do and to develop your ear for language; 3) read the work of  good editors and try to understand why they make the suggestions they do; 4) try to edit the work of others to hone your skills; 5) seriously consider the suggestions others make about your work and try to understand why before you take or reject; 6) read your work aloud to get an “ear” for language (and good grammar and punctuation); 7) if you are lazy, just stop now and don’t drive yourself batty; and, lastly, 8) bow to Pablo Picasso for this piece of wisdom:

“Learn the rules like a pro, so you can break them like an artist.”

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Temple, where do you sign up for their blog/posts? I can't find a field to submit my email address.

Thanks.
Dirk

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Dirk B. wrote:

Temple, where do you sign up for their blog/posts? I can't find a field to submit my email address.

Thanks.
Dirk

I think I got on it when I tried the free trial some time back (no credit card required).  https://www.autocrit.com/book-editor-free-trial/

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Thank you. I already signed up for the trial, so hopefully I'm now on their list. I tried the software but find I prefer Grammarly because of its tight Word integration. Regardless, since it's so expensive, I won't use it until I do my final edits.