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If you get reviews that you find offensive or unhelpful, tell them so in the reply and don't reciprocate. Unless they're really bored, they'll stop reading your stuff.

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Norm d'Plume wrote:

If you get reviews that you find offensive or unhelpful, tell them so in the reply and don't reciprocate. Unless they're really bored, they'll stop reading your stuff.

Norm, could you please keep your sensible ideas to yourself!   If people start being sensible, how the heck can we maintain sufficient drama to keep threads like this alive!!!

Note:  this is sarcasm

*crunch, crunch*

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The site has changed lately. The first reviews I received on this site were so warm and encouraging even though I had no idea how to use punctuation, POV, grammar, etc. but lately, I've noticed really harsh and discouraging reviews given to new people including words like 'lame' and 'unreadable'. Thank goodness for Ann and Marilyn and some others who always give welcoming reviews. Where has the supportive, encouraging community gone?

29 Reply by njc

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There are one or two very talented writers that cut people down in reviews and never read the review replies.  Don't let them get to you.  You can block a member from your work if it gets too bad.

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Yeah, some reviews have gone over to the dark side. I'm going to fix the problem.

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SolN wrote:

Yeah, some reviews have gone over to the dark side. I'm going to fix the problem.

Not sure how your new shred group will fix that problem, Sol.  A writer has to first be willing to post in that group, and I don't think most new writers have developed that thick a skin yet.  So that still leaves the problem of reviewers leaving hurtful remarks in the other groups.  That's the problem that needs to be addressed. 

Like Clark said in an upper comment, she wanted to leave because of it.  And she did for 3 months.  I think it's a missed opportunity for us to grow as a writing community.  Address the ones who are being so hurtful - and you know who they are - and ask them to tone it down a little.  Else a new person won't stick around for long.

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So that still leaves the problem of reviewers leaving hurtful remarks in the other groups.  That's the problem that needs to be addressed.

That problem has also been resolved. If a reviewer simply isn't able to provide considerate criticism then Premium isn't the right group for them and they are removed from it. Once that's done, they cannot review new members, unless new members elect to join the Shred Group.

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SolN wrote:

So that still leaves the problem of reviewers leaving hurtful remarks in the other groups.  That's the problem that needs to be addressed.

That problem has also been resolved. If a reviewer simply isn't able to provide considerate criticism then Premium isn't the right group for them and they are removed from it. Once that's done, they cannot review new members, unless new members elect to join the Shred Group.

Well done, Sol. Contrary to the belief of some, there are guidelines for reviewing.  JP

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SolN wrote:

So that still leaves the problem of reviewers leaving hurtful remarks in the other groups.  That's the problem that needs to be addressed.

That problem has also been resolved. If a reviewer simply isn't able to provide considerate criticism then Premium isn't the right group for them and they are removed from it. Once that's done, they cannot review new members, unless new members elect to join the Shred Group.

Good deal!

35 Reply by Bevin Wallace (edited by Bevin Wallace 2018-01-20 22:32:53)

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Marilyn Johnson wrote:
SolN wrote:

So that still leaves the problem of reviewers leaving hurtful remarks in the other groups.  That's the problem that needs to be addressed.

That problem has also been resolved. If a reviewer simply isn't able to provide considerate criticism then Premium isn't the right group for them and they are removed from it. Once that's done, they cannot review new members, unless new members elect to join the Shred Group.

Good deal!

This is a good move for the Group.  R.I.P. "She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named" (a.k.a. The Dark Lady)
One helluva writer, though.
*crunch, munch*
Cheers

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SolN wrote:

That problem has also been resolved. If a reviewer simply isn't able to provide considerate criticism then Premium isn't the right group for them and they are removed from it. Once that's done, they cannot review new members, unless new members elect to join the Shred Group.

God help a new member if they accidentally join the Shred Group, not knowing what it is.  Will you put up an explanation of what it means to be a member of that group?

37 Reply by Bevin Wallace (edited by Bevin Wallace 2018-01-21 00:00:02)

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Marilyn Johnson wrote:
SolN wrote:

That problem has also been resolved. If a reviewer simply isn't able to provide considerate criticism then Premium isn't the right group for them and they are removed from it. Once that's done, they cannot review new members, unless new members elect to join the Shred Group.

God help a new member if they accidentally join the Shred Group, not knowing what it is.  Will you put up an explanation of what it means to be a member of that group?

God help a new member who can’t figure out from the name “shred group” what they’re in for..LOL

The The Shred Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive total brutal honesty. Only post here if you are ready to receive and benefit from that kind of feedback.

(Nice alliteration)

Cheers

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Bevin Wallace wrote:
Marilyn Johnson wrote:
SolN wrote:

That problem has also been resolved. If a reviewer simply isn't able to provide considerate criticism then Premium isn't the right group for them and they are removed from it. Once that's done, they cannot review new members, unless new members elect to join the Shred Group.

God help a new member if they accidentally join the Shred Group, not knowing what it is.  Will you put up an explanation of what it means to be a member of that group?

God help a new member who can’t figure out from the name “shred group” what they’re in for..LOL

The The Shred Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive total brutal honesty. Only post here if you are ready to receive and benefit from that kind of feedback.

(Nice alliteration)

Cheers

And coming soon to a forum near you [drum roll]
The The Ego Stroke Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive kind words aimed at encouragement even if there’s no hope.  Only post here if you are ready for banal platitudes and gold stars for participating. (Also great for credit hoarders.  50 words of empty, benign rhetoric = piles o’ points!)

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Seamus wrote:
Bevin Wallace wrote:
Marilyn Johnson wrote:

God help a new member if they accidentally join the Shred Group, not knowing what it is.  Will you put up an explanation of what it means to be a member of that group?

God help a new member who can’t figure out from the name “shred group” what they’re in for..LOL

The The Shred Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive total brutal honesty. Only post here if you are ready to receive and benefit from that kind of feedback.

(Nice alliteration)

Cheers

And coming soon to a forum near you [drum roll]
The The Ego Stroke Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive kind words aimed at encouragement even if there’s no hope.  Only post here if you are ready for banal platitudes and gold stars for participating. (Also great for credit hoarders.  50 words of empty, benign rhetoric = piles o’ points!)

Mr. Seamus,
This is no place for humor.  Please join the group “The The Snarks Group Group”.  I think you’ll find the forum activity there more suitable for your type.
*crunch, munch*
Cheers

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Seamus wrote:

And coming soon to a forum near you [drum roll]
The The Ego Stroke Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive kind words aimed at encouragement even if there’s no hope.  Only post here if you are ready for banal platitudes and gold stars for participating. (Also great for credit hoarders.  50 words of empty, benign rhetoric = piles o’ points!)

LOL. This from one who has posted nothing and has reviewed zilch. It appears the only goal for this character is to try to stir a hornet's nest in the forums. It is quite laughable really. BTW, Ms, this is my thread so it won't be deleted like the one where you attacked forum authors for no reason unless deleted by Sol. Should you insist upon spewing more nonsense, it will remain for the amusement of all until that day comes if ever. As stated previously, I will be laughing at you, not with you. Take care. Vern

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vern wrote:
Seamus wrote:

And coming soon to a forum near you [drum roll]
The The Ego Stroke Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive kind words aimed at encouragement even if there’s no hope.  Only post here if you are ready for banal platitudes and gold stars for participating. (Also great for credit hoarders.  50 words of empty, benign rhetoric = piles o’ points!)

LOL. This from one who has posted nothing and has reviewed zilch. It appears the only goal for this character is to try to stir a hornet's nest in the forums. It is quite laughable really. BTW, Ms, this is my thread so it won't be deleted like the one where you attacked forum authors for no reason unless deleted by Sol. Should you insist upon spewing more nonsense, it will remain for the amusement of all until that day comes if ever. As stated previously, I will be laughing at you, not with you. Take care. Vern

Run, Seamus!!

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vern wrote:
Seamus wrote:

And coming soon to a forum near you [drum roll]
The The Ego Stroke Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive kind words aimed at encouragement even if there’s no hope.  Only post here if you are ready for banal platitudes and gold stars for participating. (Also great for credit hoarders.  50 words of empty, benign rhetoric = piles o’ points!)

LOL. This from one who has posted nothing and has reviewed zilch. It appears the only goal for this character is to try to stir a hornet's nest in the forums. It is quite laughable really. BTW, Ms, this is my thread so it won't be deleted like the one where you attacked forum authors for no reason unless deleted by Sol. Should you insist upon spewing more nonsense, it will remain for the amusement of all until that day comes if ever. As stated previously, I will be laughing at you, not with you. Take care. Vern

*Bows* God Vern has spoken.  I yield your post back to you.  I cry easily when other people laugh at me.  And sorry for calling you a curmudgeon.  Anybody can see that’s not true. How could I have been so insensitive.  *sticks tail between legs and runs away from Vern*

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Seamus wrote:
vern wrote:
Seamus wrote:

And coming soon to a forum near you [drum roll]
The The Ego Stroke Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive kind words aimed at encouragement even if there’s no hope.  Only post here if you are ready for banal platitudes and gold stars for participating. (Also great for credit hoarders.  50 words of empty, benign rhetoric = piles o’ points!)

LOL. This from one who has posted nothing and has reviewed zilch. It appears the only goal for this character is to try to stir a hornet's nest in the forums. It is quite laughable really. BTW, Ms, this is my thread so it won't be deleted like the one where you attacked forum authors for no reason unless deleted by Sol. Should you insist upon spewing more nonsense, it will remain for the amusement of all until that day comes if ever. As stated previously, I will be laughing at you, not with you. Take care. Vern

*Bows* God Vern has spoken.  I yield your post back to you.  I cry easily when other people laugh at me.  And sorry for calling you a curmudgeon.  Anybody can see that’s not true. How could I have been so insensitive.  *sticks tail between legs and runs away from Vern*

LOL! Take care. Vern

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Oh, look at that. Peace in our time.

45 Reply by SolN (edited by SolN 2018-01-21 04:22:28)

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And coming soon to a forum near you [drum roll]
The The Ego Stroke Group Group
This group is for people who want to give and receive kind words aimed at encouragement even if there’s no hope.  Only post here if you are ready for banal platitudes and gold stars for participating. (Also great for credit hoarders.  50 words of empty, benign rhetoric = piles o’ points!)

Coming to a forum near you [drum roll]

A condescending member who takes shots at others without posting his own work. Who criticizes the sensitivity of others without putting themelves out there. Nice. Funny some would even say. But not long for this place I reckon.