Re: The Shred Group

jack the knife wrote:

I've read all the posts on this subject so far and, sorry, Sol, but I don't see the need for this shred group. If an author can't take the heat of unfavorable critiques, they can leave. If reviewers are mean-spirited and vitriolic, they can be removed from the site. And we already have a Fight Club group for members who like to duke it out. As far as I know, the Premium Group does not require "niceties" and "encouragement" from reviewers, though most reviewers will try to find something positive in their critiques. They chose to review it after all when they could have passed on it. Finally, I wouldn't want the Premium Group to get the reputation of the place where reviews aren't "honest."

Hear, hear!

Re: The Shred Group

vern wrote:


I think the separation is because some people, certainly not all, but enough, may not be prepared for the sometimes overly blunt reviews which some (again certainly not all or even a large percentage) provide. There are those who are more sensitive to criticism and there are those who are less tactful in reviewing. It only makes sense that the two have the option for a different environment. No one is required to function in one or the other; there is flexibility for using either or, or both. With the added option, what might be considered "rude' in one forum might be run of the mill in the other. Different skins for different folks or even the same folks at different levels of development. That's the way I see it and applaud the new option. Take care. Vern

I believe that it also provides a safe environment for reviewers. There are some members who are authoritative and forthright within the reviews they dispense (fair enough), but who for some reason will not accept the self-same degree of attention towards their own writing, however legitimate and technically substantiated that critique might be. 

Strange but true. I have consciously experimented in the past. I have reciprocated reviews in-kind. Measured the review to legitimately suggest the same degree of alteration and change within their own writing that they suggest within the work they reviewed; and yet the author(s) have felt insulted. Apparently within some people there is no assumption or acceptance that you should ever take back what you dish out or reap what you sow.     
Anyway, within the Shred it should be safe and sensible. Only those authors level-headed enough to happily receive the same style and degree of critique they dispense will utilise the group. 

My main optimism for the venture is that extended discussion upon word craft and writing analysis might break out within the Shred group forum.
Cheers!

Re: The Shred Group

jack the knife wrote:

I've read all the posts on this subject so far and, sorry, Sol, but I don't see the need for this shred group. If an author can't take the heat of unfavorable critiques, they can leave. If reviewers are mean-spirited and vitriolic, they can be removed from the site. And we already have a Fight Club group for members who like to duke it out. As far as I know, the Premium Group does not require "niceties" and "encouragement" from reviewers, though most reviewers will try to find something positive in their critiques. They chose to review it after all when they could have passed on it. Finally, I wouldn't want the Premium Group to get the reputation of the place where reviews aren't "honest."

I don't think anyone is saying the Premium Group's reviews aren't "honest". There are however different ways of stating an honest opinion. If someone says, "Your plot could use some work, but it has potential" or conversely says, "Your plot stinks and you should buy a grammar book and study it before trying to write" they both could be honest opinions, but one might be more readily acceptable for someone new to the game depending on the thickness of their skin so to speak. You currently have all kinds of different groups available and people may join or not join depending upon their preferences. The Shred Group is no different. Just as you say, if an author can't take the heat, they don't have to participate any more than they do in any other group. You in essence argue against your own argument.

Yes, there is the Fight Club and we've had the Shred forum for ages and guess what, they have not significantly impacted the Premium Group in any way as far as I can tell, and certainly not as much as say The Basic Group or other groups which are a part of the site. Personally I don't see any need for any group other than the Premium Group, but as long as we're going to have them (and Sol says we are) then one more which will probably be more useful than most of the others and no one has to join any more than any of the others, then it appears to be a good idea to move the reviewing process to a more thought provoking level for a certain segment of the site. Don't know if I will or not, but no one has to use it just as with any other group. Take care. Vern

Re: The Shred Group

We each have a personality and a style. Our normal way of writing or reviewing will change for the better through feedback on a site like this.  Having a Shred group will not protect new writers. Reviewers get frustrated with common mistakes that come from lack of experience. Each of us as an individual has a responsibility to work toward being fair, polite, and honest. We must not forget, we are here to help.  Sincerely, John

Re: The Shred Group

Dill Carver wrote:

I believe that it also provides a safe environment for reviewers. There are some members who are authoritative and forthright within the reviews they dispense (fair enough), but who for some reason will not accept the self-same degree of attention towards their own writing, however legitimate and technically substantiated that critique might be. 

Strange but true. I have consciously experimented in the past. I have reciprocated reviews in-kind. Measured the review to legitimately suggest the same degree of alteration and change within their own writing that they suggest within the work they reviewed; and yet the author(s) have felt insulted. Apparently within some people there is no assumption or acceptance that you should ever take back what you dish out or reap what you sow.     
Anyway, within the Shred it should be safe and sensible. Only those authors level-headed enough to happily receive the same style and degree of critique they dispense will utilise the group. 

My main optimism for the venture is that extended discussion upon word craft and writing analysis might break out within the Shred group forum.
Cheers!

I'm sorry, Dill, but we heard you the first, second and third times.

So you have a bone to pick with some dogmatic reviewers who won't accept suggestions when their work is reviewed. Easy solution--don't play with them anymore! Block them. You're not a new member--you should know what to do.

As for your experiment to evaluate others' reviewing behaviors--how insulting that you should believe yourself so superior to the rest of us you may approve or disapprove each of us. Who do you think you are?

I used to admire your linguistic skills. Too bad skills don't make the man. JP

Re: The Shred Group

John Byram wrote:

We each have a personality and a style. Our normal way of writing or reviewing will change for the better through feedback on a site like this.  Having a Shred group will not protect new writers. Reviewers get frustrated with common mistakes that come from lack of experience. Each of us as an individual has a responsibility to work toward being fair, polite, and honest. We must not forget, we are here to help.  Sincerely, John

You are correct, merely having a Shred Group will not automatically protect new writers, but it would certainly offer a different environment for some reviewers who prefer the type review that some new members may not be accustomed. And conversely some authors might appreciate just the type review some "shredders" provide but would not necessarily receive in the normal channels by oft times random selection.

In any case the Shred Group would be no different for those who don't join than any other group on site which you don't join. Just as you have joined many groups beyond Premium because you evidently feel they will offer something different, so too it would be with the Shred Group for those who join.

If there wasn't some minimal support for such a group as the Shred, it wouldn't have been established. The same could be said for all the groups you have joined. The real difference being that as far as I know, there is no one opposing all those other groups despite the fact that most are seldom used and offer nothing to benefit or entice most members.

In short, why would you "protest" an already established group you don't have to join or even acknowledge its existence? Put the shoe on the other foot for the groups you belong to. Just my opinion. Take care. Vern

Re: The Shred Group

vern wrote:

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In any case the Shred Group would be no different for those who don't join than any other group on site which you don't join. Just as you have joined many groups beyond Premium because you evidently feel they will offer something different, so too it would be with the Shred Group for those who join.

If there wasn't some minimal support for such a group as the Shred, it wouldn't have been established. The same could be said for all the groups you have joined. The real difference being that as far as I know, there is no one opposing all those other groups despite the fact that most are seldom used and offer nothing to benefit or entice most members.

In short, why would you "protest" an already established group you don't have to join or even acknowledge its existence? Put the shoe on the other foot for the groups you belong to. Just my opinion. Take care. Vern

You are correct. It isn't my right, nor my responsibility to know about the workings of a group which doesn't affect me. Unless I'm being encouraged to join, in which case I want to look before I leap.

But I hope group members are not restricted to reviewing only each other. They can still review the works of people outside the Shred group, won't they? What a tragic, limited experience they'll have at tnbw if they're not allowed to go outside the group. And what if they're members of multiple groups? Will they be excluded from reviewing the work of people in their other groups because they might be sensitive?

I accept the group for what it is--another one of many. I don't need to know anything more. Go in peace. Live long, and prosper.  JP

Re: The Shred Group

jp wrote:

But I hope group members are not restricted to reviewing only each other. They can still review the works of people outside the Shred group, won't they?

They are no more restricted than any other group. Most works posted are listed in more than one group. Take care. Vern

Re: The Shred Group

njc wrote:

Please tell me you don't want it in pink!

Seriously, there is a market in pink firearms and accessories.  I'm guessing the only reason there's no market for lace is that it would get caught when the weapon is drawn.  cool

Stainless steel, and a black grip.  I'll tell you the name of my dealer when you're ready.  lol

Re: The Shred Group

It may not be my place to say this. It may not even be appropriate. Heck, I don't know. But I think everyone is missing the point.
The shred group appears to me to have been created to contain a *single* person, and that's that. And, a damn fine writer. Jeff

Re: The Shred Group

JeffM wrote:

It may not be my place to say this. It may not even be appropriate. Heck, I don't know. But I think everyone is missing the point.
The shred group appears to me to have been created to contain a *single* person, and that's that. And, a damn fine writer. Jeff

It is your place just as much as anyone else to have a say. I probably know of which "single" person you refer and I agree they are a fine writer, but I don't believe the Shred Group was created for that person alone. The idea for "shredding" has been around for a very long time with its own thread. The group merely makes it easier for folks who wish to participate. Take care. Vern

Re: The Shred Group

Dill Carver wrote:
vern wrote:


I think the separation is because some people, certainly not all, but enough, may not be prepared for the sometimes overly blunt reviews which some (again certainly not all or even a large percentage) provide. There are those who are more sensitive to criticism and there are those who are less tactful in reviewing. It only makes sense that the two have the option for a different environment. No one is required to function in one or the other; there is flexibility for using either or, or both. With the added option, what might be considered "rude' in one forum might be run of the mill in the other. Different skins for different folks or even the same folks at different levels of development. That's the way I see it and applaud the new option. Take care. Vern

I believe that it also provides a safe environment for reviewers. There are some members who are authoritative and forthright within the reviews they dispense (fair enough), but who for some reason will not accept the self-same degree of attention towards their own writing, however legitimate and technically substantiated that critique might be. 

Strange but true. I have consciously experimented in the past. I have reciprocated reviews in-kind. Measured the review to legitimately suggest the same degree of alteration and change within their own writing that they suggest within the work they reviewed; and yet the author(s) have felt insulted. Apparently within some people there is no assumption or acceptance that you should ever take back what you dish out or reap what you sow.     
Anyway, within the Shred it should be safe and sensible. Only those authors level-headed enough to happily receive the same style and degree of critique they dispense will utilise the group. 

My main optimism for the venture is that extended discussion upon word craft and writing analysis might break out within the Shred group forum.
Cheers!

I agree on all points. Take care. Vern

Re: The Shred Group

vern wrote:
jp wrote:

But I hope group members are not restricted to reviewing only each other. They can still review the works of people outside the Shred group, won't they?

They are no more restricted than any other group. Most works posted are listed in more than one group. Take care. Vern

** My understanding is that members who are confined to the "Shred Group" and *removed* from the Premium Group no longer have access to works posted on Premium, where the vast majority of works are indeed posted. Those sent to "Shred" can only read works by their connections and the groups they would have access to.

You may test it by leaving the Premium Group. I did, and got this message when I tried to click on several posts that appeared in the stream on the home page:  Not Authorized Please join one of the following groups to read this posting: TheNextBigWriter Premium.

So currently, anyone limited to the 'Shred Group' has access to those ten members and their limited connections.

Jeff

Re: The Shred Group

JeffM wrote:
vern wrote:
jp wrote:

But I hope group members are not restricted to reviewing only each other. They can still review the works of people outside the Shred group, won't they?

They are no more restricted than any other group. Most works posted are listed in more than one group. Take care. Vern

** My understanding is that members who are confined to the "Shred Group" and *removed* from the Premium Group no longer have access to works posted on Premium, where the vast majority of works are indeed posted. Those sent to "Shred" can only read works by their connections and the groups they would have access to.

You may test it by leaving the Premium Group. I did, and got this message when I tried to click on several posts that appeared in the stream on the home page:  Not Authorized Please join one of the following groups to read this posting: TheNextBigWriter Premium.

So currently, anyone limited to the 'Shred Group' has access to those ten members and their limited connections.

Jeff

I suppose Sol could confine some folks to the Shred Group for his own reasons, but that is not the natural or usual way to join. I'm a member of the Shred Group and can still access the Premium Group and any other open group the same as always. And I know that all the other members of the Shred Group were/are not confined to that group any more than a member of let's just say the Hodge Podge group is confined to that group. If you join any group, that does not confine you to that group. I'm not sure why the confinement theory exists, but it is certainly not the rule. Join or not, it's up to the members. Take care. Vern

Re: The Shred Group

Earlier someone commented that members may be fearful of expressing honesty or providing a good critique for fear of being removed from Premium. Like anything in life, what happens to one, will happen to others. Jeff

Re: The Shred Group

If we're going to be libertarian here, sure, anyone can form any group and hope to attract members to that group. Sol wants to create a new group - fine. Members can join it. But what the practical benefit that would be escapes me. I created the Thriller, Mystery, Suspense group, but I didn't intend for members who joined it to post only in that group. It was meant only for a place for like-minded readers/writers to go for discussions or whatever. As it turned out, the only thing I've seen coming out of these myriad groups I'm associated with is the occasional quiz. Perhaps I should be more active administering my group (and if anyone wants to take it over, let me know), but my focus has been posting and reviewing in the Premium group, where the action was and (so far) is. I'm not privy to all the other groups' activities, but I'm not aware of any that have postings only to that group. That would kind of defeat the purpose of this site, IMO. Sol, though, seems to want postings for like-minded writers confined to this new group and for like-minded reviewers to seek those postings out. I guess we could change the mindset of the site and have all the subgroups serve as a minor league, as it were, where genre postings would first go to the applicable group before advancing, if warranted, to the majors (Premium). I don't know, this edict from on high has a "who cares" quality to it unless Sol is pursuing a radical change in the TNBW model, and this is the first step.

Re: The Shred Group

jack the knife wrote:

If we're going to be libertarian here, sure, anyone can form any group and hope to attract members to that group. Sol wants to create a new group - fine. Members can join it. But what the practical benefit that would be escapes me. I created the Thriller, Mystery, Suspense group, but I didn't intend for members who joined it to post only in that group. It was meant only for a place for like-minded readers/writers to go for discussions or whatever. As it turned out, the only thing I've seen coming out of these myriad groups I'm associated with is the occasional quiz. Perhaps I should be more active administering my group (and if anyone wants to take it over, let me know), but my focus has been posting and reviewing in the Premium group, where the action was and (so far) is. I'm not privy to all the other groups' activities, but I'm not aware of any that have postings only to that group. That would kind of defeat the purpose of this site, IMO. Sol, though, seems to want postings for like-minded writers confined to this new group and for like-minded reviewers to seek those postings out. I guess we could change the mindset of the site and have all the subgroups serve as a minor league, as it were, where genre postings would first go to the applicable group before advancing, if warranted, to the majors (Premium). I don't know, this edict from on high has a "who cares" quality to it unless Sol is pursuing a radical change in the TNBW model, and this is the first step.

Okay, I just ran a test and you can post to both Premium and Shred at the same time simply by clicking both groups when publishing. As stated earlier, I don't see any need for any groups other than Premium, but I see no need to protest the Shred Group any more than the others since they are all evidently going to be a part of the site unless Sol changes his mind about the group system. Unlikely. You can have your cake and eat it too if you desire to post in both groups. And no one need join nor participate in Shred or any other group to include Premium (for those only in Basic) if they do not wish. Take care. Vern

Re: The Shred Group

You can have your cake and eat it too if you desire to post in both groups.

This is correct.

Earlier someone commented that members may be fearful of expressing honesty or providing a good critique for fear of being removed from Premium.

I think all veteran writers can attest this is not what normally happens on the site. If you tell writers to give up writing or that their work is crap though, you might be told your reviewing style of more suited to the Shred Group. Either that or I will boot you off the site. But you'll be warned before any of that happens.

I don't know, this edict from on high has a "who cares" quality to it unless Sol is pursuing a radical change in the TNBW model, and this is the first step

What edict? Listen, there are some members who despite themselves have trouble communicating with novice writers. I know for a fact quite a few writers have left the site because they've received an overly harsh first review. Note that I didn't say overly critical. Many times it isn't malicious but rather a review style. If a reviewer feels the need to lay it on with everything they have, to pull a literary Simon Cowell, no problem, just do it in the Shred Group or they might receive a warning from me if I receive multiple complaints. If the reviewer persists in that behaviour then they'll either be invited to the Shred Group or you asked to leave the site. Easy.

But if you haven't heard from me, then you're doing fine. You can join the Shred Group or not. I don't really see the big deal.

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Re: The Shred Group

Boy this has struck a nerve for some reason. Clearly the group was created for people like Temple who although master writers are a bit scathing with beginner writers.. I don't see how creating a Shred Group really changes much on the site at all, except for maybe Temple. I certainly don't see how it weakens th site. Go where you want, post where you want.

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Re: The Shred Group

Dill Carver wrote:
j p lundstrom wrote:

I'm sorry, Dill, but we heard you the first, second and third times.

Well, I felt that I hadn’t previously made the point (and nor had anyone else) that the shred principle actually works both ways. The emphasis of discussion was more upon those who are reviewed and not those who review.  I feel that the shred principle provides an unambiguous environment in terms of both reviewers and authors knowing where they stand. Expectations are managed and understood.

I’m sorry, p lundstrom, that you’ve once again assumed the prerogative to make it personal (you talk of bones to pick and clearly you have one with me). For my part, I’m not sure about your use of the royal ‘we’. You tend to insinuate that you are speaking on behalf of a body of people? Are you the self appointed spokesperson for the rest of the site, a specific clique, group or the rest of humanity?

In the meantime your incessant authoritative and reiterated posts are to be accepted and enjoyed by the ‘we’ (your) ‘all.’ 

j p lundstrom wrote:

So you have a bone to pick with some dogmatic reviewers who won't accept suggestions when their work is reviewed. Easy solution--don't play with them anymore! Block them. You're not a new member--you should know what to do. .

You say “dogmatic,” I say deluded and self-opinionated. Obviously you misunderstood me? Either that, or you intended to put words into my mouth because I have absolutely no problem whatsoever with “reviewers who won't accept suggestions when their work is reviewed.” It is my adamant belief that nobody has any obligation to accept or entertain any suggestions put to them in within a review. Take it or leave it – no worries either way; has always been my mantra when it comes to reviewing.

My problem (and the point I was making) is with those (few) reviewers who readily dispense authoritative editorial wisdom in the haughty manner of dictatorial review (even though in some cases their own product is not all that good); and who explode or implode with indignation if they receive a review upon their own work that is constructed in the self-same manner as the reviews they distribute.

These people exist, a very small minority and not by any means exclusive to tNBW, but universally. I cannot be the only person to have come across this?

Anyway, my only point was that the ‘shred’ principle might elevate this practice.

j p lundstrom wrote:

As for your experiment to evaluate others' reviewing behaviors--how insulting that you should believe yourself so superior to the rest of us you may approve or disapprove each of us. Who do you think you are?

This vitriolic outburst is truly a WTF? moment and pushes your post over the episodial edge.

Again the royal ‘we’ as if you speak for the entire site, outraged upon their behalf?

All that I said, or intended to say, was that occasionally a reviewer, if reciprocated with a review in-kind, might not accept and be upset by receiving the self-same approach to a review upon their own work that they might inflict upon others. Again this is a small specific percentage of reviewers and their psyche and behaviour is self-evident and I’m surely not the only person to have experienced it?

I am genuinely mystified as to why you are outraged against me on behalf of the rest of the reviewers in the world? I have no problem with any reviewer within this thread nor 98% of reviewers that I’ve ever come across. My only beef is with that small minority who can dish it out but cannot take it. Why do you act as if my displeasure in respect of this small dysfunctional group of reviewers relates to a supposed judgment across the entire reviewer community? 

You ask ‘who do I think I am?’  Well, the truth is that I don’t’ know; I’ve never really thought about it but I can assure you that any insecurities that I might display stem from an inferiority complex rather than a superiority complex. You are probably immune to irony, but your judgment of me (not from a personal POV, but that of spokesperson on behalf of the rest of the community), for being judgemental is the epitome of irony.

j p lundstrom wrote:

I used to admire your linguistic skills. Too bad skills don't make the man. JP

You know nothing of me, ‘the man’

Just as I don’t have clue who the hell you are or what your agenda is. Your assassination of my character means nothing.

I stand my ground in a world of liars, cheats, thieves, rapists, murders, rapists, sexists, racists, paedophiles, sycophants, bullies, terrorists, extortionists, philanders, narcissists, sexual predators, animal abusers, abusive parents, abusive spouses, adulterers, political militants, religious nutters, sociopaths et al, and I can hold my head high, for I will have none of it. I would readily stand between anyone on this planet and those people. I have been true and proved myself in terms of loyalty, trust and honesty over and again to those who actually know me.  There have been times within extreme situations where my courage has failed and I could have (should have) done more; so I am not proud of myself, In fact, most of the time I am ashamed.       

I mention it not for sympathy nor any motive other than that people here might begin to understand or at least consider it a factor when evaluating my words on this site; I am military veteran with over a decade of mostly active service behind me and I have long been diagnosed with PTSD.

I swing from glass completely empty to glass overflowing. Some days I spend in remorse, failing to comprehend why I am not dead and other days are spent euphorically celebrating life. Some days I read something I wrote and neither recongonise nor recollect it. But no excuses, I speak my mind and the truth as I see it. I may be wrong and not know it.

I made the mistake of revealing on this site that I find the individual nature of Hillary Clinton abhorrent and that I consider atheism the only true religion and my trend toward libertarian principles in terms of politics. The death of me on this site it would seem, those revelations apparently offending all and sundry, or at least the mass of all of those represented within the p lundstrom ‘we’. All I know is that if I so much as speak in the forums now, it draws a disparaging comment from the indignant ‘we’

So here I am, sat with the black dog and he is panting hard and I can tell you p lundstrom, without the use of admirable linguistics, that your petulant misappropriation of my words and your personal attack upon me is actually revealing more about you than it is about me.

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Re: The Shred Group

Dill Carver wrote:
Dill Carver wrote:
j p lundstrom wrote:

I'm sorry, Dill, but we heard you the first, second and third times.

Well, I felt that I hadn’t previously made the point (and nor had anyone else) that the shred principle actually works both ways. The emphasis of discussion was more upon those who are reviewed and not those who review.  I feel that the shred principle provides an unambiguous environment in terms of both reviewers and authors knowing where they stand. Expectations are managed and understood.

I’m sorry, p lundstrom, that you’ve once again assumed the prerogative to make it personal (you talk of bones to pick and clearly you have one with me). For my part, I’m not sure about your use of the royal ‘we’. You tend to insinuate that you are speaking on behalf of a body of people? Are you the self appointed spokesperson for the rest of the site, a specific clique, group or the rest of humanity?

In the meantime your incessant authoritative and reiterated posts are to be accepted and enjoyed by the ‘we’ (your) ‘all.’ 

j p lundstrom wrote:

So you have a bone to pick with some dogmatic reviewers who won't accept suggestions when their work is reviewed. Easy solution--don't play with them anymore! Block them. You're not a new member--you should know what to do. .

You say “dogmatic,” I say deluded and self-opinionated. Obviously you misunderstood me? Either that, or you intended to put words into my mouth because I have absolutely no problem whatsoever with “reviewers who won't accept suggestions when their work is reviewed.” It is my adamant belief that nobody has any obligation to accept or entertain any suggestions put to them in within a review. Take it or leave it – no worries either way; has always been my mantra when it comes to reviewing.

My problem (and the point I was making) is with those (few) reviewers who readily dispense authoritative editorial wisdom in the haughty manner of dictatorial review (even though in some cases their own product is not all that good); and who explode or implode with indignation if they receive a review upon their own work that is constructed in the self-same manner as the reviews they distribute.

These people exist, a very small minority and not by any means exclusive to tNBW, but universally. I cannot be the only person to have come across this?

Anyway, my only point was that the ‘shred’ principle might elevate this practice.

j p lundstrom wrote:

As for your experiment to evaluate others' reviewing behaviors--how insulting that you should believe yourself so superior to the rest of us you may approve or disapprove each of us. Who do you think you are?

This vitriolic outburst is truly a WTF? moment and pushes your post over the episodial edge.

Again the royal ‘we’ as if you speak for the entire site, outraged upon their behalf?

All that I said, or intended to say, was that occasionally a reviewer, if reciprocated with a review in-kind, might not accept and be upset by receiving the self-same approach to a review upon their own work that they might inflict upon others. Again this is a small specific percentage of reviewers and their psyche and behaviour is self-evident and I’m surely not the only person to have experienced it?

I am genuinely mystified as to why you are outraged against me on behalf of the rest of the reviewers in the world? I have no problem with any reviewer within this thread nor 98% of reviewers that I’ve ever come across. My only beef is with that small minority who can dish it out but cannot take it. Why do you act as if my displeasure in respect of this small dysfunctional group of reviewers relates to a supposed judgment across the entire reviewer community? 

You ask ‘who do I think I am?’  Well, the truth is that I don’t’ know; I’ve never really thought about it but I can assure you that any insecurities that I might display stem from an inferiority complex rather than a superiority complex. You are probably immune to irony, but your judgment of me (not from a personal POV, but that of spokesperson on behalf of the rest of the community), for being judgemental is the epitome of irony.

j p lundstrom wrote:

I used to admire your linguistic skills. Too bad skills don't make the man. JP

You know nothing of me, ‘the man’

Just as I don’t have clue who the hell you are or what your agenda is. Your assassination of my character means nothing.

I stand my ground in a world of liars, cheats, thieves, rapists, murders, rapists, sexists, racists, paedophiles, sycophants, bullies, terrorists, extortionists, philanders, narcissists, sexual predators, animal abusers, abusive parents, abusive spouses, adulterers, political militants, religious nutters, sociopaths et al, and I can hold my head high, for I will have none of it. I would readily stand between anyone on this planet and those people. I have been true and proved myself in terms of loyalty, trust and honesty over and again to those who actually know me.  There have been times within extreme situations where my courage has failed and I could have (should have) done more; so I am not proud of myself, In fact, most of the time I am ashamed.       

I mention it not for sympathy nor any motive other than that people here might begin to understand or at least consider it a factor when evaluating my words on this site; I am military veteran with over a decade of mostly active service behind me and I have long been diagnosed with PTSD.

I swing from glass completely empty to glass overflowing. Some days I spend in remorse, failing to comprehend why I am not dead and other days are spent euphorically celebrating life. Some days I read something I wrote and neither recongonise nor recollect it. But no excuses, I speak my mind and the truth as I see it. I may be wrong and not know it.

I made the mistake of revealing on this site that I find the individual nature of Hillary Clinton abhorrent and that I consider atheism the only true religion and my trend toward libertarian principles in terms of politics. The death of me on this site it would seem, those revelations apparently offending all and sundry, or at least the mass of all of those represented within the p lundstrom ‘we’. All I know is that if I so much as speak in the forums now, it draws a disparaging comment from the indignant ‘we’

So here I am, sat with the black dog and he is panting hard and I can tell you p lundstrom, without the use of admirable linguistics, that your petulant misappropriation of my words and your personal attack upon me is actually revealing more about you than it is about me.

"You are old, Father William," the young man said,
"And your hair has become very white;
And yet you incessantly stand on your head—
Do you think, at your age, it is right?"

"In my youth," Father William replied to his son,
"I feared it might injure the brain;
But now that I'm perfectly sure I have none,
Why, I do it again and again."

"You are old," said the youth, "As I mentioned before,
And have grown most uncommonly fat;
Yet you turned a back-somersault in at the door—
Pray, what is the reason of that?"

"In my youth," said the sage, as he shook his grey locks,
"I kept all my limbs very supple
By the use of this ointment—one shilling a box—
Allow me to sell you a couple?"

"You are old," said the youth, "And your jaws are too weak
For anything tougher than suet;
Yet you finished the goose, with the bones and the beak—
Pray, how did you manage to do it?"

"In my youth," said his father, "I took to the law,
And argued each case with my wife;
And the muscular strength which it gave to my jaw,
Has lasted the rest of my life."

"You are old," said the youth, "one would hardly suppose
That your eye was as steady as ever;
Yet you balanced an eel on the end of your nose—
What made you so awfully clever?"

"I have answered three questions, and that is enough,"
Said his father; "don't give yourself airs!
Do you think I can listen all day to such stuff?
Be off, or I'll kick you down stairs!"

I didn't write it, but it expresses my sentiments.

Re: The Shred Group

Makes me wonder why I didn't shut the forums altogether. Does anything good really come from them? All I see are threads that almost always descend into bickering and hurt feelings.

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Re: The Shred Group

SolN wrote:

Makes me wonder why I didn't shut the forums altogether. Does anything good really come from them? All I see are threads that almost always descend into bickering and hurt feelings.

One of the truly great things that distinguishes TNBW from Scribophile to which I also belong, Sol, is that you haven't held a tight rein on the forums, and have minimally censored only the most egregious things.

It allows writers to fight with words instead of weapons. I always learn a lot when my beliefs are set upon by Dill Carver, for instance, and I would greatly lament it if his voice and opinions were censored or muted.

I recommend that you establish a forum—let's call it The Inferno, with a sign above the entrance Abandon hope all ye who enter here as a forum to collect all political and religious discussion. Joiners should understand that no holds are barred and no entrance is possible for anyone other than paying members.

Memphis Trace

Re: The Shred Group

If not for the forums, I would never have met Dill, and that would have been a travesty. I agree with Memphis: he's strengthened my perspective, in SO many ways. The forums are a space for us to exercise our writing chops by beating our heads together. smile Sometimes that results in friendship. Sometimes not. Dill is one of the finest people I have ever met. I'm sad when I think I might never have bumped into him here, and had a good rip-roaring fight that sent us to one another's writing and a long friendship filled with constructive conversations about prose and history and literature. That's what it's all about. So thanks for not closing the forums back then, Sol. I think our little fight lit up the forums for a few days, but you never intruded or threatened to shut it down, and now I can't imagine not knowing him.

Re: The Shred Group

SolN wrote:

Hi all,
I've created a new group called The Shred Group for those who want total blatant honesty without any of the niceties or encouragement writers should be receiving in the Premium Group. Sometimes reviewers are great at pointing out flaws and helping a writer edit their work but not as diplomatic in how they deliver it. These reviewers still offer a ton of value for writers who have thick enough skins (most of us don't). If you are ready for this type of feedack, or feel like this is how you like to review, then this group is for you.

https://www.thenextbigwriter.com/group- … -group-106

Sol

Sounds like a good idea, sir. Thanks for this!