I am a natural diplomat, reasonable, tolerant,m fair, always willing to listen to varying viewpoints, and ready to see the other side of an issue. Even if I strongly disagree with someone, I will try to find points of similarity and agreement rather than emphasiing the differences. I often avoid taking an extreme or one-sided stance on anything. I have a strong desire for harmonious and pleasnat relationships, and express a spirit of cooperations, compromise, friendship, and fairness. I very much want to be liked and because of my need for approval and acceptance, I am easily influenced by others opinions, especially when I was younger. I so much want to please that often I will suppress my own intense or unpleasant feelinjgs in order not to offend others. Sometimes my politenes can be misinterpreted as being phony or wishy-washy. My need to create harmony extends to my physical environment and personal appearance as well. I appreciate beauty and have a natural sense of balance, symmetry, and proportion. I do everything in good taste, with a sense of style and art. I also feel that reelationships are an art, one that especially interest me and one that I am usually quite skilled at, for I possess tact and acute awareness of other people. Marriage is very significant to me and finding the right person to share my life with is extrememly important. Being part of a close couple seems natural to me and I am not an independenat loner. Having a partner increases my self-confidence. I do have a tendency to become overly dependent on my partner and perhaps not to develope a clearly defined identify outside of the relationship. Finding the balance between being myself and blending and uniting with another is a challenge for me. Others see me as an agreeablew, smooth, harmonious, and nice person. Though there may be much more to me this is the sort of face I show to the world. I possess personal chaerm and understated, noncombative manner. My motto could be "you catch more flie3s with honey than with vinegar" for I usually take a friendly, cooperative approach rather than a streong, forceful, I'm-going-to-conquer-the-world attitude. I am tolerant, broad-minded, and well-educated and I have traveled widely. I radiate a certain distinction, even nobility. I am apt to having a significant impact on the people I encounter, without even realizing it--a positive, encouraging one. I tend to blend in with and take on the characteristics of the people in my surroundings, and may thus not make a powerful individual statement of my own. I may project an aura of glamour or make-believe, andenjoy trying on different personalitites at different times. I come across to others as intelligent, alert, articulate, knowledgeable, and communicative. I am quite curious and interested in the people an devents around me and can't resist commenting about them. Also I need to be busy and active, and I move quickly. I also appeart to be restless keeping my mind and hands occupied helps with that. I can bew surprisingly blunt and direct too especially when peoople get to know me on more than a superficial basis. My gift is to say some very honest and candid things in a whay that will not alienatge people or I may vacillate between being gracious and telling it like it is.
