1 Topic by Sideman (edited by Sideman 2024-06-06 04:57:12)

Topic: Not Sure When I'll Be Back - Wife Receiving Hospice Care

Hi Folks,

I've been away for a month or so and I'll be away a bit longer. Di is now receiving hospice care as her health continues to decline. Our house is being fitted with medical equipment and a hospital bed. We have healthcare professionals coming and going almost every day. So my attention is being directed toward that effort. I'll keep this post updated for those who might want to know how it's all going.

Take care, everyone.

Alan

PS:  Apologies for the spelling errors in the topic heading. I didn't notice them until after I posted.

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Thank you for the update, Alan. It's sad that Di's health continues to worsen, although it's wonderful to know that you are finally receiving support for her care. I'm sure many of the folks here will keep both of you in our thoughts and prayers.

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Alan--
I am praying for you and your wife.
Dagny

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God bless you and Di.

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Dirk, Dags, and Nathan ... thank you very much. I appreciate that. So does Diana.

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Alan--
I'll keep you both in my prayers.
Terry :}

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So sorry to hear this, Alan. Special prayers for the both of you.

Bill

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So sorry to hear this, my sweet friend.  But I'm glad to know she's receiving help. I know exactly what it means to have your home turned into a hospice facility... been there.  I will remember you both in my prayers.  Please keep us updated. Get some rest when you can.

Hugs to you and Di,
MJ

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Bill,

Many thanks. We both appreciate your prayers and kind words!

Alan

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Hello, My Lovely Friend, Marilyn,

Thank you so much. But have a bit of good news. Di is slightly better. New eyes and ears caring for her have brought about some changes in her diet and medication. She's headed for iron infusions, as you are. Her internal medicine doc said if she continues to improve, there remains a slim chance she might migrate from hospice to palliative care. We're keeping our fingers crossed.

Now, you take care of yourself, and I'll take care of me. You're so fortunate to have David.

Bless you, my dear friend. Big hugs.

Alan

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Alan, I updated the subject line to fix the typos you mentioned above (I have extra moderator privileges).

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Alan--
Good news indeed! Another answer to my prayers. Continued good thoughts and prayers directed your way!
dags smile

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Dirk B. wrote:

Alan, I updated the subject line to fix the typos you mentioned above (I have extra moderator privileges).

Thanks, Dirk. Much appreciated! I hope to be back, at least for a while, early next week. The hospice team has taken over some of my duties in the care of Di. Looking forward to it.

Alan

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14 Reply by Sideman (edited by Sideman 2024-07-11 23:42:13)

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A Quick Update ....

Di is holding steady and has shown small improvements in some areas. Her short-term memory is pretty much absent, but her long-term memory is very accurate. Other than being exhausted much of the time, she told me a few days back that she feels slightly better. At this point, slight improvement is excellent news.

Di and I both appreciate all the kind words and support from everyone here. Thank you so much!

I'll be back to posting and reviewing in a day or two. I had been posting "Death Watch", but I discovered a major flaw in the storyline, so I'll be posting a revised version of "Kern County Crude". I have it 'finished' except the final several chapters. It will have between 55 and 60 chapters. I'll be concurrently posting "Death Watch" as soon as I make the necessary changes. Looking forward to getting back to site and hoping Sol manages to keep it going.

Take care, everyone. We love you guys & gals!

Alan & Di

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Hey,
I'll keep you both in my prayers, Alan.
Terry :}

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