Topic: How does one get their Mojo back?

Over the last ten weeks I have done zero writing. At first, a family problem interfered, but that was temporary and lasted only a few weeks. Then I kept putting off writing attempts. My thinking was that nobody was buying, so why should I write? I know this is faulty thinking, but also simple human nature. Now I find I have no real desire to push ahead. My wife is recovering nicely from knee replacement, so why aren't I writing? People ask me how I'm doing on my next novel and I shuffle around and give a vague answer. Is this attitude from the spring doldrums, or a sign of something worse: diminished desire to finish what I've started?

Just ruminating here. Has anyone else experienced this phenomenon? If so, how did you work your way past it? What finally kicked you off dead-center?

Bill

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

I expect it's an individual thing and no one can answer it explicitly for you. For me, it's just something I'm in the mood to do or it is not. When I first started my novel, I simply set out to do it in Hawaii (hand written) until I ran out of money and had to come home. I didn't write again for years because of life getting in the way and putting food in the belly literally. When I started again I wrote the entire thing in about a month (375 pages) and set out to get an agent. I quickly received positive response and first sent a few chapters and then the entire manuscript upon request. Unfortunately, I had edited those first few chapters, but not the rest of the manuscript so was rejected for the whole thing. I began the process of rewriting, but at the time it was all on a typewriter using carbon copies and I stopped again for several years until I broke down and bought a computer to make easy changes. Been revising and sending out queries periodically ever since when the passion strikes. Work on contests and other projects in the mean time to keep my mind on writing. Postpone if need be, but never give up. The desire and passion will return in due course as that is also a part of life. Good luck. Take care. Vern

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Hi Bill,
I've definitely experienced this. I believe in layman's terms it is called writer's block haha
Some of the things that gets me back in the mood are reading books about writing, watching lectures (about writing, or not. TED talks are great.), or watching things (like stories on the news) that make me angry (read "impassioned") and wanting to vent. Also free-writing. Just sitting down for ten minutes to write about anything. I think when you give yourself permission to write something incredibly badly (i.e. by free-writing), it frees up all the dried ink and gets your creativity flowing again. The more you write, the more you want to write, and journaling or free-writing is a great way to get back into the zone.
Here are some of my favourite videos/books:

http://www.pandemoniuminc.com/endings-video
Story (Robert McKee)
Save the Cat (Blake Snyder)
Writing the Breakout Novel (Donald Maas)
Write Great Fiction (James Scott Bell)

4 (edited by Max Boyce 2019-05-06 05:50:55)

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Hi Bll,
Well, you know my story: wife's suicide four years ago, eight years and counting of a disease that mimics ALS (MMN), 100mg/MS Contin each day, and a relpase/remission body affliction treated with $80-90K of IgG infusions each month. And, recently a deadly romance with my high school sweetheart that nearly killed me and made me want to kill her, lol.

My advice: never wish for da  mojo, brah, to do the hu-hu on yu... just let it happen.

As to the novel. well, novel means fresh and new. I know people say  there is nothing new to write abut, but I've fond a topic that no one has written about and eeet bringa da mojo back fo me, brah.

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Hi Bill.

Here's what worked for me: reading.

I started reading anything and everything I could. What I read was books, short stories, etc., that were NOT in my favored genres. Looking at other things helped spur my own creativity in the genres I love. Then I found this place, and my "mojo" took off! I'm reading such a variety of genres and types of work here! I'm even reading - and LIKING - poetry! I'm 62 years old and I've NEVER read poetry that I wasn't forced to read. I've rediscovered my passion for writing and I'm having a big 'ole time writing again.

Hang in there. Definitely don't give up. Write a short story about writers block  smile

Bobbie

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

@Vern: How true. Life has a way of getting in your face and pushing hard to be noticed. I find excuses easily to not write and let them sway me. My first novel was a study in procrastination--and spread out much the same as you. It took over ten years to go from a short story to a novel. The desire is still there, but the inclination just isn't making it over the hill and down the other side.

@Si-Mack: Oddly enough, I have purchased a few books lately on the ins and outs of writing. They do help, and I get enthused for a little while (days, usually) but then the old lethargy sets in and I stop writing again. Maybe I should whack away at some short stories and put them out here for comment. That might help.

@Max Boyce: Great hearing from you again, Max. I wondered if you were still around. Doctors are investigating something happing to me right now that has me worried. Cancer got my first kidney seven years ago, and now they've found "something" on my other kidney, but "don't want me to worry" even though their investigation is taking months. Needless to say, this in itself worries me. At those times, writing is not something I can do for relaxation.

@Bobbie.R.Byrd: I am a voracious reade, Bobbie. I have a whole roomfull of authors. I tend to collect whole series of novel from a single author. I have all Clancy's books, as well as W. E. B. Griffin, Grisham, Woods, CHild, and a host of tohers. It is rare to find me somewhere not carrying or reading a book. I take one wherever I go "just in case" I have a free moment. It could be the constant reading gives me an excuse not to write my own books.

Yesterday, I mowed my grass and worked in the Iris beds for the first time. I'm hoping that when things begin growing in earnest, I'll relax enough to begin writing again. When I'm tense or worried it simply isn't conducive to deep thought processes. Spring is a time for outdoors, summer, when it's hot, is a swell time to be indoors--and writing.

Bill

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Hi Bill, I've been thinking of you in the last couple of months, wondering what you're up to. That feeling of what is the point is probably a common one for most writers. How to revive the energy and motivation to go on is a huge question mark and not likely accomplished for each writer the same way. Why you write in the first place obviously plays a big role. For me, while I would like my novel get published is one goal, but not the only one. For me, writing is my daily meditation, my place of peace, that I don't want to miss. I love the research that goes along and just get torn out of ordinary thoughts and obligations. This weekend was inspiring in a different way. I took a workshop at a local writing institute on Radical Revision, and that put my mind again in a different place. I enjoyed the face-to-face interactions and the conversations during the workshop and during lunch break. Breaking out of a cycle of routine is important for me to get the creativity flowing. I hope you'll find yours.

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Hi, Christine. Since I posted this, I've been doing some deep self-analysis. I've come to the conclusion I'm not happy with the direction all my major works are going. The framework for the second in the trilogy is virtual bare bones and I've nothing to fill it with. Wanderlust is stuck in a rut and I don't know how to get out of it. I've two other things I want to develop, but until I get the two major ones out of the way I don't want to tackle a third or a fourth. It's a vicious circle: either work on one I'm not happy with, or try to expand something even more tenuous. I'll eventually get it sorted out. I hope.

Bill

9 (edited by Temple Wang 2019-05-07 13:06:53)

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

If you’re not “driven” to write by something inside you, then chasing the muse is a waste of fretting. I’ve read a lot of biographies of authors, and I can’t recall any of them feeling the need for “inspiration” to “write.” They might need inspiration for a specific story, but the drive to write shouldn’t be something that waxes and wanes if it’s really your passion.  (Some writers have mental illness, in which case, their illness might disrupt them.  I’m excluding those folks.) 

In my case, I go nuts if I go more than eight hours without writing, and have been that way for years and years.  It’s an obsession.  I don’t even understand the concept of “writer’s block,” as it’s something I have never experienced.  That’s not touting myself; I’m merely pointing out the distinction between having a “hobby” and having a “passion.”  And I’m suggesting that chasing “mojo” to write is a waste of time. It’s either there or it’s not.  And if you’re writing because your aim is to be published, that’s not a passion for writing—that’s either an ego thing or a money thing.

I’m also not suggesting that writing as a way to kill time or as a hobby (or even just to make a buck, or to stroke your ego) is not worthwhile — it’s absolutely a fantastic pursuit for those ends, and a great way to keep your brain cells active in your later life.  But be honest with yourself: if you have to force it, then it’s not a true passion, and what you produce won’t be “true.”  So, roll with it through the dry spells, as fretting over not being able to find the muse is a waste of time. 

When I’m not in a position to write on my creative work, I write in my journal about what’s going on around me.  Being an obsessive observer and writing things down, including overheard conversations, is a great way stir the creative juices and perhaps awaken your muse (and the latter will help you craft great dialogue).  I also obsessively write down interesting descriptions, words, or expressions when I read, which you might find inadvertently triggers your muse.  I carry a voice recorder everywhere I go, and have for twenty years.  I even whisper stuff into it that I see when I’m trapped in the subway, then transcribe it later.

Read.  Obsessively.  Outside your preferred genre.  And read books on writing craft. 

Lastly, too many people “go for the novel” instead of writing short stories or even just scene descriptions.  I would bet 99% of novels never get finished (because they should have never been started in the first place).  Perhaps you might consider being less ambitious and aim for short stories.

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Thanks for sharing this.   Unless you’re depending on writing to put bread on the table, perhaps it’s time to just let it be.  You have been extraordinarily productive for a long time; perhaps this is a time of being fallow.  That doesn’t mean nothing is happening.  It’s likely that once the concern about your health is resolved, the juices will flow again.  I feel for you—such pressure has to be difficult.  Hope for the best for you.

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Prepare to abandon ship, if needed. My Galaxy Tales trilogy (Book 1: Into the Mind of God) started out as an autobiography in 2012, morphed into a space opera in 2013, needed to be abandoned halfway through the first draft, finally became semi-logical/readable in v2 (including six months of writer's block where I did nothing but read), got relatively polished in v3, after which I concluded there was no audience for it (too religious for the non-religious and to irreverent for the religious). So, after six years, I shelved it pending a complete rewrite, which will require at least two more drafts that will takes years. I don't mind, however. I learned a lot.

In the meantime, I got inspired to write a fictional trilogy about the Book of Revelation (The Lord of the Earth). This time, I chose my target audience first (primarily Catholics, hopefully some Catholic-curious Christians, and maybe a few thriller readers). I spent a year doing detailed research (much more still to do), didn't do enough plotting (the murder/mystery element fell apart almost immediately), went back to the drawing board, had life intrude for four months with no writing, and am now partially back in the saddle trading reviews and editing early scenes. I'm sufficiently inspired by my current story that I will keep going as soon as I get my life fully reorganized. It will take me at least ten years to write the whole thing. At that pace, Galaxy Tales will probably never get done, which is too bad because some of what I wrote there is very funny, IMO.

I think Temple may be onto something. Try writing short stories and you may find something inspires you to write a new book or finish an existing one. The Lord of the Earth started that way. I wrote a short story called Connor based loosely on the Angel vampire TV series. Many people encouraged me to turn it into a book. Once I started the research, it morphed into a full-blown project, albeit with a completely different plot, setting, and ending.

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Temple is right on one count: I am an obsessive reader. I read ALL the time. I'm never without a book of some kind. Short stories do have an appeal. I have a stable of them on my computer waiting to be finished. Some are nothing but a paragraph with a basic plot. Could be a time away from the demands of strategic thinking on a huge plot would be beneficial. I have a short (three week) vacation in Boulder coming up. I'll be cat-sitting in a house with no TV other than DVDs. Perfect situation for time alone.

Bill

13 (edited by claw 2019-05-07 23:28:40)

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

The mind has a momentum to it.
If it has spent the last few weeks in a depressed mood. That is, you have accepted as a fact the idea that you "should" feel bad, such as in an effort to show empathy to your wife, and you did this consistently for some period of time. You will suddenly find that that mental pattern or habit is stronger and more present in your life now. To remedy this situation you must stimulate your mind with elevating experiences or thoughts for a while... That is, expose yourself to positive stories, people, and environments. Surrounding yourself with happy people will make you happy, and surrounding yourself with nature will also help. A good workout where the focus is on feeling alive, massage, and stretching can quickly release the tensions held in your muscles and which support the mental pattern/momentum that your mind is currently in. An attitude of "things might not be just as I would wish, but I'm going to have fun and enjoy life anyways." needs to be perpetually cultivated in all of our lives, for our mind to remain positive and thus be able and ready to help us do the things we wish it to do.

I have learned this from my own challenges in life, and I hope it helps...

14 (edited by B Douglas Slack 2019-05-14 00:10:17)

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Things are slowly getting back to normal. Mhy wife's knee is healing and the stength is coming back with physical training. It is slow though, mostly because of her previous two hips replacements. Not as spry as she used to be. Me neither, for that matter. Still have some tension in my own state of health, but coping with it better now. I even tried to do a little writing yesterday and today. Didn't get far, but farther than I had been.

Thanks for the responses.

Bill

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

That's great, Bill! Keep going!

Re: How does one get their Mojo back?

Good to hear your wife's health is improving, and your's too. Getting older isn't for sissy's as they say. I'm getting there, too, and can well relate to the concerns and especially the fears. Taking good care of yourself, eating well, exercising with whatever you can do, becomes crucial. Yet, if you can get in the right state of mind, writing can be done I believe for a long long time. Yes, keep going!