Topic: SO LONG and MANY THANKS

It's been an exciting ride, but like all good things it has come to an end for me. There are two reasons why, the first and most important is that I can fly now and it's time for me to leave the nest. Six years ago when I found TNBW I didn't even own a computer. All I owned was a vague desire to write, to tell a story and to connect with someone out there. I have accomplished that goal thanks to TNBW. I still can't spell for crap, but I have Spell Check so I slide by in that department.

What I do have is a natural ability to tell a story. What I have learned through TNBW is how to perfect that ability and for that I am very grateful. After six years and one hundred and seven short stories published by more than twelve E-Magazines on the net, Miranda Magazine, Green Silk Journal, Bewildering Stories, Feather Tale, The Long Short Story, Boston Literary Magazine, Fictionville, King's River Life Magazine, etc.,  Two Novellas, a book of short stories and a book of poems all  published on Amazon, now it's just a matter of doing.

I will also add something important here. I have been very lucky in finding publishers who saw brilliance in my writing, not perfection, far from it, but a talent that spoke to them, made them remember me and publish me. I have learned the hard way that one story does not fit all publishers. You have  to find the right publisher for the right story. In the beginning when I received a rejection on a story, I thought it was dead. Then one day I decided to submit a story for a second time and believe it or not it was accepted immediately and over forty more have been published by that editor over the years. Lesson learned, keep dancing until you find the right partner.

As I mentioned in the beginning, there is a second reason that I am signing off. To be quite honest, I don't fit with the new Next Big Writer site. I'm not a computer whiz, truth be told I'm not very bright in that department and I dearly miss the uncluttered simplicity of the old site, without the added  bells and whistles. I understood it and used the hell out of it, writing and posting almost three hundred stories. I learned from  other writers without wondering what 'groups, or contacts, or book shelves, were.

I met talented people who made me laugh, cry and occasionally hold my nose with their writing.  But most importantly I LEARNED. The system works. 

Good luck to everyone and thank you for your help.  I've got a novel in here somewhere, I think it's time I wrote it. God bless you all.     

                                      Ron Van Sweringen      RLVS

2 (edited by maxkeanu 2014-12-21 22:10:14)

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Good luck on the novel, Ron! Re-join for reviews of it and your other future writings.

Aloha - max (somewhere in life, under a palm tree, dreaming & writing at a card table next to my fur-covered Winnebago).

3 (edited by Wilma Bailey 2014-12-21 22:38:55)

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Well, I'll just say "So long, Ron," not goodbye.  I have enjoyed your writing tremendously. Your words of wisdom in your farewell message are truthful and gratefully received -- exactly the advice I need at 81 and just beginning to send some things out. Flying? Really? Literally? Take care and do check in now and then. You are a true talent! Harriett/Wilma

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Ron - I've enjoyed reading you and am sorry to see you're leaving the site. Hope you'll stop in and visit in the future. Best of luck to you!- Pammy

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Sorry to see you go

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Always enjoyed your short stories. I'm happy a publisher discovered your brilliance. Cheers.  Keep on doing what you love. Ceridwen

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Hi Ron, We haven't had much contact but I wanted to reply to such a well-written essay about your leaving the site and why.  I don't even know you yet I have the same feeling that I used to have on the job when  a co-worker announced they were leaving, i.e., a mixture of envy and sadness, and a feeling of being left behind.  I think in your case, the fact that you teased out the two components of why you've decided to go now is  both astute and truthful.  The fact that you made good use of the site and now it's time for you to move on is both insightful and courageous on your part.  Luckily for you, this coincides with the coming of the new site and the need for the long-time members to adapt to it, or not.  You're saying not, and not just because you don't want to or can't adapt to it.  I also feel that I have one foot out the door, but unlike you will not make a firm decision, but will linger on in an ambivalent haze.  Anyway, I wish you the best of luck, and congratulations for both past and present publishing ventures.  mswriter/Den

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All the best to you, Ron. You will be missed around here. Your stories are your stories, and that in itself, makes your writing unique. later gater

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NO!!! This saddens me to my core Ron.  What will TNBW be without your wit and and your signature writings?  Dang... It is getting more and more difficult for me to stay as I see more and more of the "old gang" leaving.  Please at least stay in touch with me?  patti2331@gmail.com  PLEASE

Dang it! This Christmas was difficult enough for me.  sad

All my best goes with you.   The site lost a valuable member.  I was just getting to the point I could read and get a bit caught up!!!  sad

Flo/Patti

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Flo, I could not and WOULD not forget you!    Ron Van Sweringen  RLVS      X

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THAT HELPS A LITTLE.  I DO UNDERSTAND THAT THERE DOES COME A TIME THAT ONE NEEDS TO ZONE IN ON HIS/HER OWN FUTURE IN WRITING AND TNBW DOES TAKE TIME AWAY FROM THAT.  YOU HAVE SUCH TALENT AND BEYOND WRITING.  IT IS YOUR WIT I'LL MISS AS I ALWAYS KNEW I WAS ABOUT TO BE ENTERTAINED.  big_smile

ALWAYS A FAN  cool

PATTI

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He'll be back.

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Sorry to see you go, Ron. I wish you luck.