Topic: Things guys notice first

Based on various internet searches, the results are surprisingly consistent:

1. Eyes
2. Hair
3. Smile/laugh
4. Clothes/shoes
5. Friends

And way down the list (at the end of the list!), body/body shape.

I think this is probably done in seconds, but I was surprised by the sequence. Or is the internet lying?

ps - next week we'll swap it around! smile

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Maybe times have changed. My grandfather used to say the first thing he noticed about my grandmother was her legs. I always got a kick out of that. They met in the 1920s, mind you. And Omi was definitely a flapper. wink

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I've always thought you get three types of guys ... boobs, legs or ass! So the internet search (and given it's the internet, I'm using it with caution!) was a bit of a surprise. Or maybe it's just that the older generation doesn't give a shit what the feminists will say or think?! LOL

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As a side-note, I've tried the same search to find out what women notice first in men, and I have found no agreement whatsoever! I'm not surprised though ... LOL

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Let's twist this to what do women notice first about a guy. Here's my summary:

1. looks (dress sense, grooming, body, skin, hair, eyes) - yes, women take in all this at once
2. smile (teeth),
3. demeanor (mannerisms),
4. accent (voice),
5. posture,
6. smell,
7. who he's with

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PByrd wrote:

Let's twist this to what do women notice first about a guy. Here's my summary:

1. looks (dress sense, grooming, body, skin, hair, eyes) - yes, women take in all this at once
2. smile (teeth),
3. demeanor (mannerisms),
4. accent (voice),
5. posture,
6. smell,
7. who he's with

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I have to admit, that's pretty much my list. Grooming is absolutely paramount for me.

I'd also add what he talks about. And whether he listens when others are talking. I guess you could sum all that up in 'the way he interacts with the people around him'. Or does that all come down to demeanor?

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