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(8 replies, posted in This is US!!)

I'll be MIA for a while.

Today was a cancer-treatment day for my sister. I said goodbye to my dad and picked up Sandi, and we headed for New Hampshire. I expected a typical 9-hour day, but nope. The really long bag/infusion was on backorder, so it was a much shorter treatment. I dropped Sandi off at her house around 2:00 pm and headed home.

And... there was an empty cop car parked at the top of our driveway. Not good.

It's a shared driveway. I certainly don't wish ill on my neighbors, but I admit to hoping maybe the emergency would be at one of their houses. No such luck. It was ours.

I parked at the next-door neighbor's house (so I wouldn't block the driveway), and I ran. The nice EMTs were hauling my dad up to the ambulance in the pouring rain. He was unresponsive, but I'm pretty sure he'd already been sedated. He'd experienced difficulty breathing and called 911 on his own.

After the police worked out who I was, they let me tell my dad I was there, and I'd see him at the hospital. I think a glimmer of recognition passed across his face. I squeezed his ankle (cuz that was all I could reach) and got the heck out of everyone's way.

I picked up Sandi, and we got to the hospital long before the ambulance. They loaned me a wheelchair and a spare oxygen tank for Sandi, so I could push her to the ER, and she didn't have to run her tank dry, waiting. Once my dad arrived, someone came and took us to "the quiet room" where a nurse would come and speak to us.

I rearranged chairs so Sandi could lie down. Someone saw what I'd done and came back with a big recliner. They were so very kind.

We were nervous, but yay! My dad is stable. His vitals all look good. He's still sedated and now intubated and hanging out in the ICU. He has fluid in his lungs. Could be pneumonia, but more likely congestive heart failure.

So, we'll see how it goes. There'll be hell to pay when he realizes his favorite shirt has been sliced in two.

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(26 replies, posted in This is US!!)

Hi, all! It's great to be back.

I've been out straight with family health issues for quite a long time now. My sister is in the end stages of colon cancer, so I spend three days a week taking her to all-day treatments, and I give her a massage on a fourth day. My dad was recently widowed, and he's not all that happy alone. So I renovated our house, got it sold, and my husband and I moved in with him.

It's an adjustment. In our old home, I had privacy and quiet. Now I have all-day loud TV and nowhere to escape. I may have to find a library to frequent.

And, I moved away from my in-person crit partners. I miss them in a big way.

I've been asking myself whether I want to write strictly for fun, occasionally self publishing, again, for fun, but not bothering with marketing or caring about sales... just keep it a fun escape.

Or do I want to take this seriously and go for an agent?

I think, if I do the latter, I'll feel more justified in carving out time for myself. Right now, having closed my massage practice, I'm way too available to everybody, and boy, do they take advantage. (I'm not talking about my sister. It's one of her adult kids who could maybe expect less of me.)

I have two mostly completed manuscripts. I'm running through Marley's Ashes, my latest, tweaking madly. I also have The Girl with Green Hair, something I began on this site a long time ago. I'll likely pull that out once I get through this one.

I don't expect anyone to keep up with what may become overenthusiastic posting. I'm just happy to be focusing on writing, so I'll shove stuff up whenever it's ready. If I haven't kept up with you, please poke me. Ideally, give me a link to whatever you most want reviewed. Poke me again if I forget.

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(5 replies, posted in This is US!!)

I could not publish my prologue to only this group, but it let me stick it here and Premium. Hope I don't live to regret the Premium posting. I don't mind the feedback, but I know I can't adequately reciprocate.