#1 12-17-2011 12:07:52
- david
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Underage sexual contact (not in an erotic book)
Sorry if this question is kind of a touchy subject. I am really kind of reluctant to ask it.... but reading through the forums here you all seem like good people, who might be able to answer my question. Hopefully I put this in the right forum section!
I'm in the process of writing a book which I may or may not try to get published eventually. It started out as a fairly short story which I was writing to get memories of a very special person in my life down on paper.. The story takes place from around 1989 to 1995, starting shortly before the time I met my best friend (and girlfriend later on) who completely changed my life. It covers various important events in our lives, and struggles through the 6 years that I knew her.
The story is about 90% true, with just some minor details being changed, like names, places, and other fairly non-important details. The ending however will probably be completely different. I'll probably finish the book the way things should have gone, and not how they tragically ended. I'm still somewhat undecided on that though. I'm really not sure I can bring myself to write the true ending.
Anyway, as expected with teenagers, there was a lot of teasing each other, physical contact, and stuff like that which started in the 7th grade as we both were going through puberty. Skinny dipping in the summer of 8th grade, and things like that followed. Nothing sexual happened though until Sophomore year in H.S., after we had been apart for about a year and a half, due to her step-dad moving their family away. The sexual contact was never intercourse, as we had both promised each other (and my parents after they started suspecting something) that we would wait until marriage for that.
So I guess my question is, are there any legal issues, or other issues that I might run into with having a brief, not overly graphic, and slightly humorous description of our first sexual experiences together in this book if I were to try to get it published? I'd hate to have to leave these very important parts out of the story.
Again, this isn't a erotic novel or anything like that. This is just a story of two kids growing up together, and as frequently happens in H.S. things get a little more serious.
Thank you ahead of time for any advice on this topic, and any information on legal issues or other issues I might run into.
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#2 12-17-2011 12:24:00
- JElizabeth
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Re: Underage sexual contact (not in an erotic book)
Nope.
The novel I'm writing has a heroine who talks at length about being raped by her father, so... lol. The only way I can see you getting in trouble for this is if you are 100% factually accurate given that you say it's autobiographical, and the involved party might not want to be on display like that. But I take it that you mean "slightly" autobiographical, right? As in 90% fictionalized?
You're fine.
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#3 12-17-2011 14:11:58
- david
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Re: Underage sexual contact (not in an erotic book)
Thank you so much for the reply. It's good to hear it's not something that I'll need to remove.
It's only about 10% fictional right now, with some minor details (and names of course) changed. The other involved party is not with us anymore, and I know she wouldn't mind. Even though it was a fairly long time ago, the events, and what we went through together is still fresh in my memory. That's one of the reasons I've been writing about her the past couple of months... she was such a huge part of my life, and I guess it's been helpful in cheering me up a bit to write about and remember the few great years we had together.
I do plan on changing the ending to be more along the lines of how things would have gone, instead of how they really ended. So the last few parts of the book will likely be all fiction.
If I ever did decide to try to have it published, a tragic ending, followed by me quickly slipping back to the way I was before I met her (very introverted, only leave the house for school or work, etc) really doesn't seem like a good ending to the story. I might change my mind on that as I get closer to the ending though.
Anyway, thank you for your reply ![]()
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#4 12-17-2011 18:26:57
- TirzahLaughs
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Re: Underage sexual contact (not in an erotic book)
Oh hon, books are much more sexual than they use to be even YA books.
Unless you are doing something exceptionally kinky or illegal, you should be good.
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#5 12-17-2011 21:12:00
- deb
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Re: Underage sexual contact (not in an erotic book)
Why don't you start writing and see where it goes? Isn't that why they always have the disclaimer in novels: "This is a work of fiction; any resemblance to persons or places is entirely coincidental?"
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#6 12-18-2011 09:37:26
- Susan Stec
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Re: Underage sexual contact (not in an erotic book)
I agree with everyone, especially Deb, write the book. I have graphic sex in some of my books and like Tirz says, YA has come a long, long way.
Check out the top ten or twenty YA books on Amazon and read the blurbs. Bet there are at least have of them with sexual issues/sex scenes.
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