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#1 05-02-2011 14:06:00

QWLauren35
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I Have a Fragile Ego

I think this is why I'm going to self-publish. I believe in my writing skills. And I know that I can market something I believe in. I've done it a few times - when you have something people want, it sells. I don't know if I have something that publishers want, but if I believe that I have something that READERS will want, then I can move forward.

I wish I believed that I had something that publishers will want. It's actually cheaper to write query letters. But it's also incredibly demoralizing. I'm not sure I can handle it.

A self-publisher called my house this weekend, not the first, and I got caught up in the pitch. She asked me what my goal was. She said that some people want to be famous. Nope, not me. I just want my book to sell.

So, I'm looking at the numbers. If I sold 1000 copies, I would be very, very happy. That's why I see myself going in this direction. 

I wish more people would come to this forum and post. Perhaps there are others with fragile egos who dread the thought of rejection so much that they're willing to pay to put their book out there.

We should have a club...

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#2 05-02-2011 14:44:59

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Re: I Have a Fragile Ego

Oh you don't need a company to self publish.  If you can do the marketing, I can walk you through the cover art, setting it up as a self-publish book, putting it as an ebook.  All for almost nothing out of pocket.  The hard part will be promoting it.

Once you've gone through CreateSpace or LULU once, it's not that hard the second time.

But if you go with a company who puts it together for you, ask for when they discount (often right after Xmas) you can get half off deals.  You always want a company that sends you a proof to approve before any final prints.

Also you'll want to see the quality of the binding.

As for cover art, I can help there depending on what you want.

Without a good solid marketing plan that you work (see  The Bum Magnet and Priscilla The Great), self promoting doesn't work.  You need to have a plan with promotions and to cross-list your book.   If you have the marketing worked out, the rest is the easy part.

Tirz

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#3 05-02-2011 15:21:12

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Re: I Have a Fragile Ego

I, too, have had great success with Createspace. Very easy to work through the process, very little up front cost, nice product. My two books are compilations of my fifth graders' writings, so I didn't even bother with a custom cover--I just picked one of their standard ones.

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#4 05-02-2011 15:35:10

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Re: I Have a Fragile Ego

After more than 30 years in marketing and sales, from a door-to-door salesman in Los Angeles to selling interests in modest oil and gas ventures in Texas, I know that each rejection is just one step closer to acceptance.

Rejection? Pshaw! Thank you! Next!

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#5 05-02-2011 16:24:03

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Re: I Have a Fragile Ego

Usually those who self-publish have exhausted all other 'traditional' avenues. If you want to bypass those avenues, at least hire a professional editor, if one isn't included in your self-publishing package. I think your rush to publish is a bit rushed? At least realize: Everyone Will Hate Your Novel Until Someone Loves It. If you can't take the heat, how are you going to be able to hold up when your self-published book receives reviews?

Sales pitch aside, are you really ready to get published? Either way, best of luck. Many have found vanity publishing to be a good and fruitful option. Many have found that taking matters into their own hands is extremely satisfying.

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#6 05-02-2011 17:28:24

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Re: I Have a Fragile Ego

s_thatcher wrote:

Sales pitch aside, are you really ready to get published? Either way, best of luck. Many have found vanity publishing to be a good and fruitful option. Many have found that taking matters into their own hands is extremely satisfying.

Nope. I'm not ready. My pieces are not ready.  I think there's a certain mental state that you have to achieve. A hunger to be published. I am realizing that being here seems to be enough for me. When I get 20 hits and 5 reviews, I am thrilled. Being here makes me feel validated. And I'm not sure that I really need anything more.

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#7 05-03-2011 04:38:02

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Re: I Have a Fragile Ego

I feared rejection at first. Then I accumulated several rejection letters (in addition to four acceptances) and learned to get a kick out of the rejections. I think it depends on your outlook. I'm a VERY stubborn person. When I receive a rejection letter, I just view it as a challenge. Of course, I think that 95% of getting published (with short stories, at least) is targeting the right market. A lot of the letters I've received say shit like, "We liked this, but it doesn't embody the voice of the journal so we're going to pass" or something similar. So there's also that to keep in mind. Every writer is different. Publication does not a writer make. smile


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#8 05-03-2011 19:49:05

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TirzahLaughs wrote:

Oh you don't need a company to self publish.  If you can do the marketing, I can walk you through the cover art, setting it up as a self-publish book, putting it as an ebook.  All for almost nothing out of pocket.  The hard part will be promoting it.

Once you've gone through CreateSpace or LULU once, it's not that hard the second time.

But if you go with a company who puts it together for you, ask for when they discount (often right after Xmas) you can get half off deals.  You always want a company that sends you a proof to approve before any final prints.

Also you'll want to see the quality of the binding.

As for cover art, I can help there depending on what you want.

Without a good solid marketing plan that you work (see  The Bum Magnet and Priscilla The Great), self promoting doesn't work.  You need to have a plan with promotions and to cross-list your book.   If you have the marketing worked out, the rest is the easy part.

Tirz

I've started researching the companies. It looks like what you pay the most for is the marketing. Even at CreateSpace, the price to market is high. I get the feeling that the people who have the time to invest in self-promotion have back-burnered their day jobs. Can't do that, so I'm going to have to go with a deal that does most of the work for me.


I've looked back over my stories and they don't need as much work as I had thought.  So I'm tempted to start with someone's standard package so that I can get it sent for reviews that can be put on the back cover. I have it in my head that I'd like someone's art on the front cover. I'm going to talk to a few artists to see what is possible.


I definitely would like to have a guide, so if you're willing, I'll love you forever.

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#9 05-03-2011 20:08:22

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Their marketing rarely is worth the money.  It'd be better to do your own marketing, pay for a few reviews by places that get readers.  Ads and reviews.

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#10 05-03-2011 23:00:27

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OK. What about proofreading and copyediting. is that worth paying for?

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#11 05-04-2011 10:48:58

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Cheaper to hire your own proofer from a local college or reach out to a writer's group.  Find someone who's had it done and done right then try to hire their person.   It really depends on the quality of the editor.

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#12 05-04-2011 11:57:36

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Re: I Have a Fragile Ego

QWLauren35 wrote:

s_thatcher wrote:

Sales pitch aside, are you really ready to get published? Either way, best of luck. Many have found vanity publishing to be a good and fruitful option. Many have found that taking matters into their own hands is extremely satisfying.

Nope. I'm not ready. My pieces are not ready.  I think there's a certain mental state that you have to achieve. A hunger to be published. I am realizing that being here seems to be enough for me. When I get 20 hits and 5 reviews, I am thrilled. Being here makes me feel validated. And I'm not sure that I really need anything more.

Why bother to self-publish then? The reviews you get here will not be reflective of what you get 'out there' if you get any at all. What if you only sell ten books (to other than friends and family)? What then for your ego? Won't it be even more shattered? I urge you to at least hire a professional editor. Story collections are a tough sell, unless you're Alice Munro, or Richard Ford, or Tony Doerr. Even those few emerging writers (from the Iowa Writers Workshop) who are getting short story collections published by traditional means have had most of those stories published in literary magazines prior. And they only realize sales in the few hundreds, not thousands. You may be setting yourself up for worse disappointment by jumping the gun than you would be from getting rejections from agents, publishers and magazines. Have you tried duotrope.com? Vanity publishers want to sell you something.

Anyway, I'll shut up now, and just wish you the best of luck. For all I know, you could be the exception to the rule...

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#13 05-04-2011 13:27:10

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Also, before you self publish, Black Lawrence press has their yearly short story chapbook contest.  It's only 15 dollars to enter.

http://www.blacklawrence.com/BRCCContestPage.html

The Black River Chapbook Competition (Spring)
Awarded twice annually for a chapbook (16-36 pages) of poetry or short stories.
Beginning with the Spring 2009 competition, winner receives $500 and 25 copies of chapbook.

Deadline: May 31, 2011.


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#14 05-04-2011 14:40:25

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s_thatcher wrote:

Why bother to self-publish then? The reviews you get here will not be reflective of what you get 'out there' if you get any at all. What if you only sell ten books (to other than friends and family)? What then for your ego? Won't it be even more shattered?

No, I won't be shattered if it doesn't sell. I don't think I can explain why, perhaps because I've sold things on Zazzle.com and it wasn't a lot. I've sold lots of things over the years, and when I'm confident in a product, I can sell it.

I feel pretty confident about my writing, but it's a niche. I'm writing for the African-American literary market. I'll probably also cross over into a few other markets, but not in any major way.

My goal is to sell 1000 copies. Okay, not a goal. A dream. I think I'm willing to hustle for the first 25-100. But more than that is icing.

Suffice to say, I won't break even. The more I think about the more I realize that that's not my goal. My goal is to have my work read... and enjoyed. Oh, and my dream is for one of my stories to get into the annual Best African-American Short Stories anthology.

Maybe that won't happen unless I go the literary journal route. But I think it's the waiting that I'm not sure I can deal with. Sounds like you wait for responses, you wait for publication, and there's little you can do to move things along. And I'd have to submit different stories to different genres...

It's just a mess.

And to be honest, I think I'll eventually give up on self-publishing because it's too expensive, but I've decided to be open to it.


Am I making sense? Maybe not! But I'm writing from the gut here.

And don't worry about discouraging me. I've gotten bad reviews here and survived.  Or rather, bounced back. I don't know why submitting to journals bugs me except that it's so slow, and I am impatient.

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#15 05-04-2011 14:50:21

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Somebody here, maybe Jeni Decker (?) once posted that she found a deal and spent something like $40 to go this route. Jeni, was that you?

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#16 05-04-2011 19:57:35

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crazeesharon wrote:

Somebody here, maybe Jeni Decker (?) once posted that she found a deal and spent something like $40 to go this route. Jeni, was that you?

Actually, I just uploaded the entire thing to CreateSpace for free. I'll let you know what happens. So far all I've spent is $25 on some cover art.

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#17 05-04-2011 20:04:53

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I am using Createspace for my first novel and it's been pretty easy. Most of the problems have been on my end. I made some revisions and then had to put it into a new file, and I know I changed the headings to my name and book title, I figured it out about five hours after they sent me an email saying they'd mailed it hmm  I'm going to wait and do another round of edits anyways and then get my final proof.

I'm planning on getting the ProPlan.  I figured that I'd only need to sell about 10 copies to make my money back.

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#18 05-09-2011 05:40:02

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Re: I Have a Fragile Ego

I too, have written a novel. I have written the blasted thing five or six times! Each time, I believe, better than the last. My aim is get it right for publishing but, like others on this site, I am totally confused about the best way to go. I know nothing about marketing. Strategy is, to me, something that doesn't seem to work in politics and other situations. I do not want to spend a fortune only to find out that, what I think is a good story, is, in fact, absolute rubbish.
I would like to know what publishers are prepared to do for free? Who buys stories? What are literary agents and what do they do, exactly, and how can a naive ignoramus negotiate a mine-field of pit-falls and disappointment without being disillusioned, disheartened and ripped off! Does anyone know?

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#19 05-09-2011 13:41:24

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Gregory John wrote:

I too, have written a novel. I have written the blasted thing five or six times! Each time, I believe, better than the last. My aim is get it right for publishing but, like others on this site, I am totally confused about the best way to go. I know nothing about marketing. Strategy is, to me, something that doesn't seem to work in politics and other situations. I do not want to spend a fortune only to find out that, what I think is a good story, is, in fact, absolute rubbish.
I would like to know what publishers are prepared to do for free? Who buys stories? What are literary agents and what do they do, exactly, and how can a naive ignoramus negotiate a mine-field of pit-falls and disappointment without being disillusioned, disheartened and ripped off! Does anyone know?

You might want to start a new topic. You've got a pretty long list of questions! This is the forum for self-publishing in which you shell out the money to make the book, and then YOU try to sell it. Traditional publishing may be what you're interested in, i.e. a publisher likes your book enough to make the book and market it for you to a certain extent.

Most importantly, you will get disillusioned and disheartened easily if you aren't thick-skinned, you will probably get nowhere if you don't at least pay to have the book proof-read and possibly copyeditted so that another pair of eyes sees it besides your own. You will also have to learn to develop a query letter - there's an entire forum dedicated to that fine art. It's the hook that gets a literary agent to give any thought to reading your book to begin with.

The best place to start to get feedback is here, by loading your chapters one at a time, and reading and reviewing other people's work in your genre to get a feel for the quality you need in order to be competitive. Not everything here is good, but some of it is great, and you'll learn a lot about your own writing when you read it.

Getting ripped off is in the eyes of the beholder. The "average" book sells 1000 copies tops. Not because it's a bad book, but because the competition is fierce. Publishers are very, very picky. If for some reason, you decide that your book is the best, but you can't deal with the process of finding a publisher, you can spend anywhere from $50 to $12000 to have it self-published. A lot of money.

I hope that gets you started. And I'm not even someone who knows what she's talking about!

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